SAD SONGS

Most stuff by MDB, especially For My Fallen Angel, The Blue Lotus, My Hope-The Destroyer and The Cry Of Mankind
Katatonia, mostly LFDGD
Ashes and Falling by Pain Of Salvation
Memento Mori by Draconian, possibly one of the saddest intros ever
 
My Dying Bride - Black God, The Wreckage of my flesh, My wine in silence
Paradise Lost - One Secong, Nothing Sacred
Anathema - One Last Goodbye, The Silent Enigma
Katatonia in General...
Tiamat - Gaia
Pink Floyd - Comfortably Numb, Wish You Were Here
Swallow the Sun - The Morning Never Came
Opeth - The night and the Silent Water, Windowpane, In my time of need, Ending Credits, Dirge For November
Green Carnation - The entire "Acoustic verses" album
Fields of the Nephilim - Summerland (What Dreams may come)
 
Virgin Black - Museum of Iscariot
Virgin Black - A Poet's Tear's of Porcelain
How Like a Winter - Crucifige
Morphia - Fading Beauty
Pantokrator - Ages
 
In my most humble opinion, it is incredibly difficult for a band to produce a "sad" sound w/out sounding like they were TRYING to produce that sound. And if they sound like they were trying to produce that sound, it usually does not work for me. The only way that kind of thing works for me (and it usually does not, I prefer VIOLENCE in metal) is when it actually sounds like they produced that sound almost by accident, like it was a natural, unintended, and most importantly, SUBTLE, byproduct. Difficult to explain, but maybe some of you know what I mean...

Regardless, the only thing I can think of that fits the bill would be the album "Hail Lucifer" by BESATT. There are songs on there that make me want to me curl up and die, but it is subtle enough that it does not seem like that is what the band is trying to accomplish.... Anyone know what I mean??

Mike.