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My mom is having an affair. She told me last night that it's been going on for over a year. An affair with my doctor of 26 years. My dad has no idea and now the asshole doctor has broken it off with her and she's hysterical and saying she has nothing to live for and she wants to die, etc.

I seriously don't know how to feel. I know she and my dad's relationship isn't the best, there's 20 years difference so there is quite a gap as far as interests and priorities. But if she was so unhappy, get a divorce - don't fuck my doctor. I understand the unhappiness and the loneliness she's going through, but on the other hand I'm so insanely angry that I don't know what to do. I never thought anything like this could happen to my family.

In between all the Doogie Howser and sausage jokes, if anyone has any advice I'd appreciate it. I feel like this isn't happening and I'm just waiting for it to hit me. GAH.
 
I don't really have much that I can add beyond what I've already said. Just hope you end up doing ok if they don't... and support your father, if it comes down to it. Sounds cruel to say, but based on things you've said in the past, he's the better choice and needs the help.
 
I don't really have much that I can add beyond what I've already said. Just hope you end up doing ok if they don't... and support your father, if it comes down to it. Sounds cruel to say, but based on things you've said in the past, he's the better choice and needs the help.


She actually said "if your dad dies at least I know I can get someone else". And "while you lived at home I had you to fill some of the void but you had to move out and get your own life and that left an emptiness" ...wtf. While I lived with her, all she did was treat me like shit and tell me to go die. Fucking psycho.
 
Well that's just fucked. She's made no attempt to at least try to maintain a mutual companionship with him? They live together, they could at least interact if not mate.