It's about time to get over that.
i'm getting a lot better at that shit... it just weirded me out that it was three of them almost one after the other in the same day and they were just so blunt about it. funny stories, actually. i'm AWESOME at dealing with customers!
the first one was a black guy in his late 20s with a white guy in his 30s give or take.
black guy: So... you got a boyfriend?
me: I've got a fiance.
black guy: I don't see a ring on that finger...
me: That's actually none of your business.
both of them: Oh, she's feisty!
second time later that day. a guy a little older than me comes in with a fat, older guy. they ask me about returning a bunch of bags of sand, i call down to the returns desk for them. they come back a little later to buy more sand and as soon as they get to my register, the younger guy looks at me and this exchange happens.
guy: How old are you?
me:
... 21.
guy: You wanna get a drink sometime?
me: I've actually got a fiance.
guy: I don't see a ring on your finger.
me: I'm not gonna wear it here and risk loosing it.
i feel bad because i totally lost my cool after that.
other guy: Have you lived in Maryland your whole life?
me: What does that have to do with anything?
other guy: ... just wondering. We're not from around here.
*deep sigh* i need to chill the hell out at work.