Spawny, did you look like a black metal dude before you got into metal? And did you get a tear in your eye when you first saw a pic of a Nordic metal band and realised that you weren't alone after all?
I looked black metal before I even knew about it. EVERYONE else is just a poser.
I dont look like that at work though and all the time though, usually im just bumming around my house looking very bad indeed. I have thought about going to work dressed like it though, along with a top that says "bondage freak" just for a laugh
The woman on the bus was probably just scared of you! I'm sure she was thinking, "If that creepy guy who keeps leering at me just smiled now and then, I'd give him a night of passion he would never forget". So now you know how easy she is, you can get over her