MasterOLightning
Optimator
I agree with the previous post. I think many people don't know how to tell the difference between fulfillment and happiness. Happiness is fulfilling to some, but doesn't always get it done for others.
IAmEternal said:This was brought up by... someone... in another thread, and I found it very interesting, so I thought I'd move the discussion out here to where it's more accessible to everyone. Why do 'dark' bands like Opeth (and Katatonia, and leagues of others that many of us are fans of) appeal to us so much?
I'll give my 2 cents:
I live a pretty happy, normal life. My parents are pretty happily still together, we have a pretty good income, a nice house, and everything else is going pretty well. It may be that though this is the preferable way to live (for me), I do want to escape to something else, to experience things 'otherwise'. Music has always been a means of escapism for me, so the dark and fantastic themes in a lot of metal appeal to me. And on the occasion that I am feeling down, the dark music and lyrics of bands like Opeth strike very close to home and I identify with them on an entirely different level.
What do you guys think?
ShroudOfDusk said:Fuck... thankyou for sharing that. That must be the single most thought out post I've EVER seen on this board.
Your ideas are clear, your points concise and you say it all well.
prowlergrig said:dude, you have to admit that even on this board, only 2 people (now 3 ) replied to your post.
prowlergrig said:anyways, good post...
i especially agree with : "The only point I'm trying to make is that I don't think it's necessary connected to negative emotions. "
the reciproque (i bet this word doesn't exist, i hope you understand what i mean) is also true imo.
MasterOLightning said:I think we can probably all agree to why darkness is appealing.
MasterOLightning said:Good stuff. No one said anything about my long post, though... Oh well... I think we can probably all agree to why darkness is appealing. But why to some and then not at all to others? I think simple stereotypes are mostly responsible, but some people will never be interested in such things as metal and will gravitate towards different things, and these are all for individual reasons.
MasterOLightning said:I just see the world as a pretty bad place. There's pain and suffering and misery in just about everyone's life. The whole happiness fad is just because people try to block out the bad realities. Thinking about the bad is clearly a downer. But forgetting about the bad makes me feel extremely guilty. I know I'm not really deserving of what I have. Listening to dark music is sort of a way to acknowledge the bad things in the world.
That's easy, and also not so stupid as everyone might think. Long hair is a sign of good health and youth. It is therefore associated with power, stamina, sex appeal and attractiveness. It is also a sign of freedom (they shave you up in the army and in prisons) (and in most jobs for that matter).IAmEternal said:But does anyone care to ponder why the long hair is so appealing?
Katabasis said:Firstly to Dorian Gray, who said "Occult stuff is silly and a waste of time";
I think you are being a little naive here. Occultism does not - by any stretch of the word - equal satanism. I do agree that church burning, etc, etc IS quite childish, but I don't think that this should in any way discolour the actual 'occultists' out there. For instance, do you think that a Kabbalist is silly or wasting his time? Or a Hermeticist? Occultism is a legitimate study, and should not be confused with psuedo-Satanism.
dorian gray said:that said, occultism is NOT a legitimate study. you cant study something that has no basis in observable reality. no one has ever conducted a scientific study on occultism. you cant because its not scientific. you cant reproduce an occult event. the same goes for all religious-type belief systems. there is some scant historical evidence that jesus existed but you can never prove he was god, nor can you prove that god exists period. religion is not scientific and is thus NOT a legitimate study. one can say whatever they want about any facet of it and not be accountable because theres nothing to prove or disprove.