I had wriiten an e-mail to The Tea Party this past year - all I said was that I couldn't make their concert in Montreal because of my daughters illness, and asked when the would be touring again. Three weeks later, I received a package in the mail containing the Illuminations DVD, Tryptych CD, and a Tea Party t-shirt, and a note saying they felt really bad that my daughter wasn't doing well. I don't care what you think about their music (which I like), or that they're top 40, but I thought it was quite cool of them to do that, and it shows their character. I don't know of too many bands that would take the time to do that.