this city is chock full o' dirty old perverts

minxnim

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24 hour recap

last night: coming home on the train, this freaky 40-something weirdo is sitting across from me. the girl next to me elbows me and whispers "EW!" and i look over and he has a hard on and is staring at us grabbing his crotch.
get off the train, walk around the corner to my apartment, and some nasty snaggle tooth bald dude in a van yells "wanna ride blondie!". he got the finger (robina style)
walk into my building to get the mail and the creepy jamaican crack dealer offers me a back rub with 'oil'. NO THANKS MON.

this morning:
going running at 6 am. some old crapface walking his dog yells "NICE LEGS!" and i turn around and yell "FUCK YOU!". it's creepy to yell shit at girls when it's *still fucking dark out* and they are alone... someone tell perverts this please?

attempt to get tea at the corner store, and the hot water is all gone. some trucker perv offers to drive me to another store. i say NO THANKS I DONT WANT TO GET MURDERED.

taking subway to work, holding a package i am going to mail. gross business dude says 'i wish that was for me?' and i said 'if it was, it'd be poison'. get off the train 4 stops early to get away from him breathing down my neck.

walking past the electrical supply store that is FULL of fucking dorks next to my job, and some PR dude comes out and starts making that annoying hissing sound and i just give him the finger before he even talks.

this city is full of PERVS. any female in this city, no matter how bedraggled, is not safe.

(mind you, it's not even lunchtime yet.....)

END RANT.
 
big difference between different types of attention. my guess is, if you were the constant recipient of this special kind, your fucking attitude would change.
 
My wife often has this problem. She use to have Photo agents (questionable???) trying to get her all the time. Hit on by all sorts ppl all the time. These really aren't the problem, the problem are the creepy ones.

Like the sicko touchin himself in front of "the_preppy". That is creepy, scary, definietly needs to be given far distance from. I feel sorry for woman who have to deal with these pervs. A friend of mine had to walk about 4 km to a donut shop so she can phone her b/f to pick her up. It's about midnight and 3 drunkin pervs pull up beside her and try to sweat talk her into going with them, when she refused they tried to take her. Lucky she already realised what they are up to and ran to the nears factory where there was a trucker that came to her rescue. Lucky he was there otherwise who knows what would of happened. :(
 
the thing is...

girls would more than likely(i'm not going to say never, because there are always idiots) not hoot and yell at a passing man. and even if they did... the man would not feel threatened.

on the other hand, when some dipshit guy hoots at some girl (when she is by herself)... well, i'm sure it's not a nice experiance.
 
weapon X -- my wife has had guy (two seperate times) drive along side her and jack off... one guy kept speeding up to be next to her.

women have to deal with SO much more sick crap then a guy ever would. and half the time, guys are so dumb, they would say they would WANT stuff like that to happen to them... they have fantisies about it.
 
i mean, compliments are nice, but i think sometimes guys dont realize they're being SCARY. like, when i'm by myself and it's late, and two dudes are like "HEY COME HERE WANT A RIDE" it's like screaming RAPE RAPE RAPE RAPE and dudes sometimes have no idea how defensive and worried we have to be all the time of this crap AS IT IS, never mind with all the other so called 'harmless' pervs who think they're attention is so special that we should feel grateful that joe the toothless dog faced boy thinks we have a nice ass.

basically,
NO THANKS. i have high self esteem. i dont need some asshole hollering at me to make me feel good.