I'll usually do like this
- split the song in L-R, and then copy these to six tracks (3 L and 3 right). 1 pair for the low end, 1 for the middle and one pair for the high end
- Flip the phase on on of the center channels, and don't pan them
- Pan the two lowend tracks hard L-R, same with the two highend tracks
- Low pass and highpass on the lowend and highend, low and high enough to remove as much of the vocal as you can. PErhaps try to isolate the voice in the middlechannels, but make sure you do exact the same thing on the two-centertracks (or else your phase shift may fuck up)
Then just adjust a little here and there. By this you still get a low end (which often disappears), and a nice high end without to much vocal.