You point out exactly why (I believe) these two ideals cannot coexist in a society such as ours. There will always be those who desire the freedom to make their own choices, and there will always be those who don't care enough to do so; they only want to be happy and secure. These two goals are ultimately antithetical.
When we discuss the general ideals of a society, we cannot say "Happiness and freedom can coexist, because I have my liberty and I'm happy." That conclusion is on a personal level. We have to take all of society into account, and it's well known that in our society there are those who are unhappy because of what the results of laissez-faire economics and individualism have done to them.
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There will always be those who desire the freedom to make their own choices, and there will always be those who don't care enough to do so; they only want to be happy and secure.
I still dont understand this thought and think it is out of proportion in itself. Everyone makes a choice, some might make the choice to be happy with security and simple existance. I dont know how to say it without multiple sentences that twist and turn, but this is something that is always thrown at HS grads... that they choose not to "improve" themselves and got what they had coming when their job/lifestyle went adrift. Or lost their job because they smoked dope and got trapped in the urine test fiasco while the full fledged alki is still worthless but working (just a few examples). But I have seen enough to say that many simple HS grads did more than pay their dues, more than average effort to get what little they had, and in many instances... ba-bam they cant have it anymore because someone made a choice to better their personal value by cutting anothers value to society, makeing others expendable pawns. So here we had choices made through freedom but a few decades goes by and suddenly someone in this "free" society decided to remove someones previous free choice... because they were free to do so ???WTF??? I cant wrap my head around the idea that these disposed people "didnt care enough to make a choice(or effort)" I know Im talking economics not social but economy has seemed to always forge the social cultures.
I realize you answered this somewhat in your second paragraph. I also realize you have been probably talking about the higher average of a given social structure, which in most societies is really not that bad (on average). Im always trying to look at what can be done to improve those left out rather than bitching about them and Im not talking by means of welfare/free handouts. Im also always trying to better the perception of some trains of thought that disregard the entire population for some "acceptable" happier/properous percentage, which to me is smoke and mirrors/distraction, making some things appear better than they really are by ignoring the root of the problems.
I believe there is an actual economic train of thought (read it somewhere, sometime) in corporations, economic circles and government that feels by doing this we will put more people out of work, but the economic growth of the fortunante will compensate this through welfare/aid by means of taxes. This astonished me because I fail to see how it improves society and culture, rather only pits "one side against the other" I think this is why I seem to be more nationalist, protectionist (?), socialist, communist. Some say communism/socialism is what welfare stems from but I say bullshit, no free hand outs, make/keep the friggin work, which implants better living ideals, motivation, industrious pride and keep the scales of personal proserity more closely balanced. Yet history has shown this gets all screwed up too ??WTF??
Let me know where Im off on anything here because as is known, I dont study anything written, just my decades of personal observation and evaluation.
Honestly I think the population needs to be curbed but this will never happen because it infringes on "personal freedom". Still there is way too many people to keep everyone happily employed, industrious, away from crime and off "welfare". So everyone just bitches about each other... lol but not funny at all, rather stupid.