Looks like I'm heading for divorce.
She's not sure if she's in love with me. W.T.F. IS THAT ALL ABOUT!!!???
I can't fucking beleive it.
She's not sure if she's in love with me. W.T.F. IS THAT ALL ABOUT!!!???
I can't fucking beleive it.
What a nice FUC**** HOLIDAY!
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bRaTpRiNcEsS
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DarbysDad
Timmy! Timmy!!! Timmy!!!
I'm sorry for you if your sorry. But I must state that I am very happily divorced...from the first Mrs Michimikey (fuckinpsychohosebeast), some how I ended up married again and am as happy as could probably expect to be 
, any way, hope it all works out for you, especially if you have kids. Either way, hire a good lawyer.
, any way, hope it all works out for you, especially if you have kids. Either way, hire a good lawyer.
Been with each other 13 years. Married 7.
2 kids who would be devastated.
I started to write a post, explaining it all.
Screw that. I just need to vent.
2 kids who would be devastated.
I started to write a post, explaining it all.
Screw that. I just need to vent.
Lordlindsey said:
Thats cool brother. You vent all you need to, it's the least we could do for you. Especially for a fellow " 'gander" (Trolls stick together!)
There were no kids in the equation when my first one hit the iceberg. I just put all I had in my lifeboat(van) and paddled away like a motherfucker. Never even went to court, just walked away. It was expensive, but I ask you, can you put a price on your own sanity and well being?
Metal Maiden
Cooking with Anthrax
Thanks everyone.
I've never went through this crap before, but it just feels like I wasted a whole lot of time. (years)
Like all these last few years were for nothing, no progress in life.
Does that make sense?
Now I need to start protecting myself for it all. (401k, IRA, savings, insurance, assets etc.)
I've never went through this crap before, but it just feels like I wasted a whole lot of time. (years)
Like all these last few years were for nothing, no progress in life.
Does that make sense?
Now I need to start protecting myself for it all. (401k, IRA, savings, insurance, assets etc.)
I can't know what it feels like to have been married and go through all that - but I know that the day before New Years I was a jerk (yeah, it was ME) this time, I had had to much to drink and pretty much told my girl what I think of her. There is more too it than that, but I was the one in the wrong this time, and she packed up her shit and left. All I know is that for the last two days I've laid around more depressed than I've ever been. A) because I can't believe I let a girl get to me like that, and B) because I can't believe that in a drunken stupor I said the things I did, and then C) I've been depressed because I can't believe I can be depressed. One of the girls I work with has been a god send, and has let me know that even perfectly normal nice guys like me get depressed, and she suggested I go to my doctor and see about some meds. I guess she thinks that I'm way to sensitive and get to emotional over things, and that maybe a doctor will know what to do. All I know is that when you are truly depressed it sucks, because all you want to do when you wake up is go back to sleep. I'm slowly coming out of it, but these things don't come with an on off switch.
That sucks dude.
No worse feeling than knowing you screwed up.
Did you at least apologize?
I get into those deep funks myself, but not this time.
If she doesn't want me, then I need to move on.
No worse feeling than knowing you screwed up.
Did you at least apologize?
I get into those deep funks myself, but not this time.
If she doesn't want me, then I need to move on.
Yeah, I apologized and apologized. The sad karmic irony of it all is that earlier that day we booked a trip to Mardi Gras. She said she needs time and distance, and that it'll be cool, and we'll be friends. But now that vacation is like the last thing I want to do. That drunken mean guy the night before New Years was not me. I don't where that came from and quite frankly it scares me. Life is full of tough lessons to learn I guess..Anybody here know where I can find a time machine??Lordlindsey said:
Thank's Tad, but the fact of the matter is that I'm the one who fucked up, and that my friend is the toughest part.ThraxDude said:
Well my woman is trying to work out shit in heard. She needs to!
She's Bbeen acting normal the last few days, but I can't go through life just pretending everything is Hunkey Dorey, when it's not. (can't go through life withoug sex either)
So, tomorrow I'm telling her she needs to give an honest answer by the end of the week.
I'll go from there.
She's Bbeen acting normal the last few days, but I can't go through life just pretending everything is Hunkey Dorey, when it's not. (can't go through life withoug sex either)
So, tomorrow I'm telling her she needs to give an honest answer by the end of the week.
I'll go from there.
While I was at the What Doesn't Die video shoot, I met Tim, a lawyer associated with the band.
He lives in my area.
Looks like i'll be giving him a buzz.
He lives in my area.
Looks like i'll be giving him a buzz.
Buddy_Love_Bomb
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Sorry to hear that dude. All the best to you and you kids. Everything happens for a reason. I know it may not look like it now, but it may ne for the best. Hang in there bro.
