what is more important?

[Misanthrope]

99%
Did not realized your little experiment however

 

[RETIREDTrapped]

...okay.... that thoroughly confused me....?

*runs around chasing his tail*

 

[requiem]

Getting back to the topic at hand...

I think loving someone. The things you can do with love far exceed the things you can do 'when' loved. Although it's nice to be loved (and after all, that's what most people strive for), the thrill of loving is quite unique, and also immeasurably powerful.

 

[Demonspell]

I didn't realize how much enmity my joke can cause...I must admit that I am very cynical when it comes to love, there is no such thing as a perfect love or a soulmate.

 

[Opet]

Huh! That's right.....you were the one who said they thought love was the most superficial of all feelings. Right? Anyhoo, sex being blended with the word love. Hm. Never heard that before. How odd. I say...there's almost nothing worse than loving someone whole-heartedly and finding out that they don't love you.

 

[from the Cradle]

Loved....Love....and will Love....

 

[Blackspirit]

Originally posted by metalmancpa
One without the other is hollow.

You need both if it's love your looking for, or none to avoid a major disappointment.

Yupp!


Love, or sex? Love of course...
I lived for many years without sex,
but without love I would have been nothing.

 

[MetalManCPA]

Originally posted by Demonspell
...I must admit that I am very cynical when it comes to love, there is no such thing as a perfect love or a soulmate.

I beg to differ - I have both my perfect love and my soulmate. This has nothing to do with ups and downs, disagreements, and other things that each day brings.

At the end of each day, I just know.

 

[MetalManCPA]

Originally posted by Blackspirit


Love, or sex? Love of course...
I lived for many years without sex,
but without love I would have been nothing.

And in hindsight, did living without sex really matter? (other than missing something really fun to do)

 

[Blackspirit]

Originally posted by metalmancpa


And in hindsight, did living without sex really matter? (other than missing something really fun to do)

Music is better than sex >)
I've always had music!
Music is always there, and it
can last much longer! hehehe....

Never missed sex,
didn't know what it was like.....

 

[Eclipse]

i loved and i've been loved, but never at the same time...

so I guess I can't say, but if this would be the best I could ever get? I guess i'd rather be loved.. It ain't that painful. However, sometimes it's even more painful.

 

[S4R]

A question from the film, A Bronx Tale, is it better to be loved or feared?

The context, a boy is asking a mob boss.

 

[Demonspell]

It is better to be feared than loved, if you cannot be both. - Niccolo Machiavelli

Opet: Yes, I did say that love is the most superficial of all emotions in the "things I believe in" post. I know half of my long list is intended to be humorous, but I truly believe everything I wrote there.

 

[Angelbreeze]

Originally posted by Eclipse
i loved and i've been loved, but never at the same time...

so I guess I can't say, but if this would be the best I could ever get? I guess i'd rather be loved.. It ain't that painful. However, sometimes it's even more painful.

i've always been in your same situation, i loved and i've been loved, but never at the same time... well, just once at the same time, but one time i prefered to be loved and let me tell you that really it's more painful than love without be loved, mainly if you are a sensitive person, and you don't wanna hurt to nobody.

I think that we never should acept only one side of the love...if we do it, we'll always be ending without mental health and mainly...with our hearts devastateds......

 

[Protocol]

>Love, or sex? Love of course...
>I lived for many years without sex,
>but without love I would have been nothing.

How were you conceived if not with sex? Jeees a question ;D

 

[Misanthrope]

ive been nothing...im glad im something now....

 

[Blackspirit]

Originally posted by Protocol
>Love, or sex? Love of course...
>I lived for many years without sex,
>but without love I would have been nothing.

How were you conceived if not with sex? Jeees a question ;D

God made me >P hehehe

 

[crumbling mirth]

sex is pretty hollow without love, that's for sure.

 

[Eclipse]

Originally posted by Angelbreeze


i've always been in your same situation, i loved and i've been loved, but never at the same time... well, just once at the same time, but one time i prefered to be loved and let me tell you that really it's more painful than love without be loved, mainly if you are a sensitive person, and you don't wanna hurt to nobody.

I think that we never should acept only one side of the love...if we do it, we'll always be ending without mental health and mainly...with our hearts devastateds......

sometimes I ask myself if I'm not being a dreamer. I know lots of girls, I could start a relationship. On the one hand though there is no passion. I just can't give in to it. On the other hand. I've been dating so many girls so far, that I can't imagine that there was no right person between all those. Did I somewhere miss the real thing?

But people that I've met, have told me that I'm a very happy person, full of joy for life... so I don't mind just hopping around on my own. Actually I couldn't wish for anything better. I just hope that there won't be a day that everything just turns around, and that I realise I've missed the train while dancing on the tracks.

Then again, nobody has a recepy for how to live your life, and every day brings something new, and so far, so good ! Hell yeah !!

 

[Eclipse]

life is for the takers