I think it depends on what you label as "metal"... there's a lotta stuff I call metal which to someone else might not be metal... I'm gonna invite some attackers here but I always thought bands like Foo Fighters were metal. They definitely have some metal tunes... Dave Grohl is a big metal head himself... In my eyes, metal never died at all.. it just got mutated into something a little off the beaten track and let me be one of the many who say that track was beaten to death. I mean, every band with a can of hair spray was labeled metal. Stuff I didn't consider to be metal at all... Extreme, Britney Fox, all these fuckin gay ass bands that had 10 seconds of fame playing some sappy chick metal. They fuckin BLEW. That was NOT METAL to me. But it WAS metal to the common asshole on the street. THAT "metal" died the day Nirvana hit us with smelly teen spirit. Then we had bands like Soundgarden, Pantera, Rob Zombie, Marilyn Manson... all of which could be construed as metal or some shape of metal... THAT is the stuff that was the bridge between the old metal and the resurgence of that same old metal. I think it's on it's way back big time. Every day some kid wakes up and says "why the fuck am I listening to this SHIT they dish out at me on MTV or the radio?" and as soon as they ask themselves that question, in jumps the metal. My two 14 year old kids LOVE heavy music. Thanks to their dad. My son is right into SLAYER of all bands. I'm so proud! He wants to be the rock star that dad never was!!
I don't know about you guys, but in my house metal never died at all.