Harry Hughes
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- Apr 25, 2009
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I don´t agree with you on almost all that. why do you need aprovement from the people walking on the street?
I don't need approval from people on the street, that's the thing. The reason why I dress the way I do now is to look as "normal" as possible in public.
When I stopped wearing my band t shirts in the street, I stopped getting harassed by idiots verbally abusing me for what I was wearing.
Some of my mates have been bashed simply for what they wear (they are indeed, metalheads too), so if you lived where I live it generally isn't worth it trying to look metal, so I just make it in my best interests to just blend in with the general population.
I'm also a hyper paranoid person who constantly worries about what others think, so if I were to wear a metal band t shirt, I'd be thinking in my head "oh that guy looking at me probably thinks I'm a satanist" or something like that, because we know that metal culture does bring with it negative connotations.
I know it's not totally rational to think everyone is looking at me and judging me and in fact 90 per cent of people are just going about their own business and don't have time to worry about the lone metalhead in the street, but it's just the way I am.
Sure, If I were in a metal band playing gigs, I'd dress the part (obligatory black shirt, black jeans), because it's business after all and people are expecting you to look a certain way if they are to take you seriously, but that would be the only exception to my own personal rule.