I agree with a lot that has been said so far, but there's one thing I want to add: The main reson that metal got in bed with satan is that it was something people reacted to. Who would have given Black Sabbath a second glance if they were called White Mass and sang about going to church and worshipping christ. People have had that beaten into their heads for 2000 years now, time for something new. A lot of the modern day black metal bands are driven to further extremes just because that's the way to get attention. From Black Sabbath to Venom to Mayhem... and so on. The thing during the 90's was to make people believe that you really were evil and really belived in satan. Attention granted, the whole thing just snowballed. And so it should be, exploring the extremes of music, philosophy and way of life has always been what rock 'n' roll / metal / death metal / black metal etc. are all about. However, saying that we metalheads are all 100% free thinking individuals is a lie, I mean we almost have a uniform: long hair, black leather. One should be wise anough to acknowledge that we do want to belong, and we do want to be seen. But we are not interested in the mainstream, we want to be out there, exploring the boundries of what is possible. Living in the middle of the road is just not living to us.