I'm really struggling with my seat height at the moment.
I've heard right angled knees are best, but if I have it like that, my right hand keeps hitting my leg when I go for the snare. So I raise my seat, then raise my snare a bit. Still having troubles, I'm quite awkward around the kit. Having big toms (12, 13, 16) doesn't help either.
Man that's cool,it shouldn't stop you from exploring the intrument and having fun whilst been challenged to develope yourself further as a player.
One of the general rules i apply stolen ofcourse off Neil Peart,is circular motion.
You want the relationship from your ass,to your feet on the kick drum pedals to feel relaxed and have even weight ditribution.You want to be siting more on the front end of the drum stool as opposed to having your ass hanging off the back end.
This is important it's your base,it's where all your motion comes from and that should include a straight back,with elbows down by your side in a relaxed position.
Alot of the work will include most upper body muscles to be used arms,shoulders,elbows and hand wrist.But the idea is to make the relationship between drumplayer,with drum sticks in his hands,with the drumkit flow musically and rhythmically.
You want to get anything that's in the way,out of the way of this process.
Too many angles on toms,constantly hitting things etc etc
You need to give yourself space because your leading from the top half of your posture.
Your snare should always be your centre and around the height of your naval.Thats where our naval chakra is and it's our centre of gravity.You should focus a relaxed breathing state,from this centre part of your body and we have our starting point.
When you relax and breath and play from this centre,you automatically play way better.
Then you want to have your drums positioned around you that works with this energy.Music is power and drumming is one of the leading sources of that power.
Tune your drums so they sound good,it helps connect in with you,and use correct grip.
You want the centre to flow from the root(correct seating)up through the spine to the shoulders and arms through the wrists flowing from hi hat to lowest tom in a way thats harmonious effortless and natural to your body.
I know i've raved on but i hope that by sharing some of the above with you,you overcome the issues you mentioned and potentially some of the guys troubled with there opposite feet find something worthwhile thinking about.
I can't stress enough how important it is,to have discipline and the correct attitude when troubled by issues be it drum tech or real life.