Just out of curiousity what happened?
I personally can´t remember much of that gig nor the people over there. I can´t see why was it your problem if Henkka was nowhere to be found the whole day? Did he miss interviews or do something to make your work more complicated?
I have a strong feeling that if I am called a complete duche someone has misunderstood my retatrded sense of humor or I actually am an asshole.
I am totally fine with both options.
Well, to start, I have to say that Henkka wasn't a problem. I just mentioned him in the context of describing my experience with each member, whether close to nothing or a conversation.
After the show I had enough to drink where I don't remember everything detail for detail, but I do have one very vivid memory of you- which is the thing that made a very negative impression.
While sitting in the dressing room with Roope, Jaska and some others, you appeared. If I recall correctly it was the first time I saw you the entire day/night besides during your set, so I had no other impression to use as reference. I'm not really one to immediately believe what others tell me about a person (good or bad), to assume others' impressions are 100% what I'd agree with, so when I meet/interact with/see a person for the first time I like to start with a clean slate.
What happened:
You walked up to the room, stood in the doorway and barked at Roope "fix me a fucking drink!"...
I would've just considered that an example of your "retarded sense of humor" and not thought anything of it, but you took it further. Roope got up within a few seconds and went to the fridge and you continued yelling "Move! Move! Move! Fucking faster!" and when he'd finished the drink you snagged it out of his hand and left the area.
It made a really bad impression on me because, first, the way you stood in the doorway, it was as if you had this superiority complex- that you were too good to walk 5 feet and do the job yourself. It wasn't as if your hands were full or anything. Second, the way you talked to Roope came across as really degrading. Also, when I was leaving the building at close, I walked past you in the parking lot and you were dishing out a lot of "fuck you"s and ignoring crew people who were talking to you. That's also something that could be credited to a "retarded sense of humor", but given the impression from earlier in the night it just added to the perceived negativity.
The whole thing just made me think "What. The fuck. Was that... Fuck that asshole."
...and that's what happened. This is also coming from someone with a sarcastic, sometimes sadistic sense of humor.
Hopefully you can see where I'm coming from, and that incident doesn't mean that a possible future meeting couldn't change my opinion for the better.
. I thought it was hilarious but the chick beside me seemed offended, haha. Good to see you're safe after all the touring and such by the way.
And I tend to agree with Xanina about it being an internal joke amongst the guys, but then theres the parking lot incident. Relics impression at least wasnt very good, but shes willing to give it a second chance, may it come.
