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Just because it cannot be materially verified (we can obviously give material gifts, but that's not a guarantee of sincerity) doesn't mean it doesn't exist. We created these categories because there is something there.
"It has come to my attention that you have now asked an additional question: 'Does the president have the authority to use a weaponized drone to kill an American not engaged in combat on American soil?,'" Carney read aloud. "The answer to that question is no."
There is "love" only insofar as people love; there is no love that preexists human behavior, that humans can then "give" to one another. You said that we created the category because "there is something there." That's where you go wrong. We didn't create them because there's something there; it appears that there is something there because we created them.
It does according to what you said. You said: "We created these categories because there is something there."
Furthermore, you're entirely confused about this process, in my opinion. "We labeled it because we created it"; what does this even mean? The appearance of the category has to coincide with its labeling; there is no "space" in between its creation and its "labeling," as you call it. Language, as a material field (which I maintain that it is, although speech complicates this), contains the possibility of all categories. At the same moment of their "creation" (more appropriately, their "coming-into-being"), the name exists.
That's not the way it works at all. That's a horribly simplified view of how language works.
Your experience of love doesn't create it as a concept that can be possessed and given. Furthermore, what you call "love" might not be recognizable by someone else as such. Finally, everything you're describing is still confined by action: you "experience" a sensation, which has to be directed toward someone. Your confidence in the concept betrays a misunderstanding in the logic of the process. It's a very idealistic and mystical view.