@realhazard; @onyx: will you both stop arguing over the word "haunted"? it's obvious that neither of you is capable of using it in its real meaning anyway.
and: @onyx: he meant some of the members don't find you extra-funny, period. they
are telling you this in your face, but you don't notice because you
have some problems telling apart (a) light-hearted jokes; (b) serious remarks; (c) heavy sarcasm, hence your assumption that people asking you for personal information are applying for a job as a stalker or that people listing your name in a fake porn movie that is never going to happen are being unrespectful.
it's ok that you ask for explanations when you don't understand someone's posts, yet the constant asking makes you look like you're blonde, aka totally naive and in the dark when it comes to basic internet chatter.
if you have a problem with this, try to smarten up and things will be better. if you don't have a problem with this, by all means keep going: you'll learn. and one of the things you'll learn is: make it apparent that you're disturbed by someone's behaviour (like realhufflepuff putting your name in that list), complain loudly and "demand" your name be removed, and that's possibly the safest way on the internet to ensure the nickname
onyx will feature on every new sex thread on every board on every metal forum online. (not meaning it's realphaser the one who'd do this, because he's a good guy and he jokes in a light-hearted way).
rahvin.