Guys of the BB!

I think Moony and Xena need to start their own male-bashing thread. It's not easy being a man, and the two of you just wouldn't be able to appreciate some of the things the tackle-bearing gender has to put up with day in, day out! :cry:
 
Just wait guys, you'll meet the right chick one day. :)

Dang an absolute stunner just came and sat down at the computer next to me. This country is a married man's nightmare!!!!! I need to get back to Australia. :)
 
Originally posted by Goreripper
You know what my ex went and had engraved on my engagement ring? "Forever more". I believed it too. Then she walked out of my life and into someone else's bed in less than a week. So right now I couldn't care less about the amount of sexist crap flying around here. In fact, I welcome it. I laugh fit to split!




...But I'll be okay soon, I promise.

been there man. Well, not quite, but similar.

Mine went through a phase of constantly telling me that she loved me. If we weren't together, she'd sms me to tell me, or email or whatever.

Then she's going out one night with her friends, I was all like "I wish I could come, but I'm feeling sick (plus her friends didn't like me)".... so I tell her "have a great time" and she tells me to SMS her during the night, and I say "I don't want you to think I'm checking up on you or something..." and she says "no, I WANT you to..." like... you know cos we'd be thinking of each other even though we were apart.

So... I sms her at around midnight... something like "I'm going to bed now, hope you're having a great time. I love you"... something like that

And she wakes up the next day next to some other guy she met.

She tells me about it, and I tell her that's the end. She says they only kissed and cuddled, no sex. She says I mean everything to her, and he means nothing, she now realises that I'm the one she wants... she'll never see this guy again etc etc etc

So I take her back.

One week later she ditches me for this guy.

What's with that?
 
Originally posted by Spiff
Some women are just plain heartless.

Yeah I started calling her "TinWoman" for a while there... amoung other things ;)

Oh and I might add... I didn't actually know that she was ditching me for that guy. She actually said "it's got nothing to do with him, I have no interest in him"...

then like 3 weeks later we got back together again... and I say "so were you seeing that guy?" and she says "no, he called me a couple of times but I told him I wasn't interested".

It wasn't until a couple of weeks ago that I found out she'd actually been "going out" with him for those few weeks, and only came back to me because she found out he had another g/f and she was just his bit on the side.

Of course, I found that out about 2 days before finding out that she was leaving me for the new guy she'd been seeing behind my back.

And that ladies and gentlemen, is the story of my one true love who I really thought I'd end up married to some day.

yeah right.
 
The truth be known, I also believe that men are affected more deeply and for longer by a break-up than women seem to be.

It seems fairly onesided on this board because all of these breakup's were either initiated by the woman half, or because of something the woman half did. I'm sure there are just as many breakups happening where the guys are at fault and the women are affected more.

Having said that - I am with the the guys on this one ... my ex did a complete 180 on herself and came home saying she was moving out that night. She still cant get her story straight as to why she moved out (thats the worst thing, if she could at least get her story straight ... :( )

And Xena - we pick these women because originally we feel something for them. And we dont anticipate them screwing us around after living with them for so long :(
 
Cheers Tanya I appreciate it :)

I'm actually (gods knows why) trying to remain on good terms with my ex... we still talk a bit online and stuff. I suppose I have to know at least ONE local girl who loves Bruce & Maiden & Blaze almost as much as I do ey?
 
Originally posted by Moon Child
It was actually nearly all the other comments that was making me sick, in particular, the light-hearted explicit ones. :)

I know that. :) Thank you for your compassion. I just needed to vent!

Actually what my ex has done isn't half as bad as what I've been through before, it's just that I cared about her a lot more.
 
You know what I'm sick of? Being considered "Mr Perfect Friend who's ideal to ring in an emergency because he can always cheer you up."

If you had idea the time I've wasted on the phone trying to get close to certain people and ended up as nothing more than a shoulder for them while they tell me all about how badly their current boyfriends treat them, you might understand why I prefer the company of books and movies these days :rolleyes:.

W
 
Originally posted by Smashed
It's not about being treated like a king-it's about mutual respect,friendship and sharing.

And licking my balls when I ask :D

:lol:

They are more trouble then they're worth,but hey, we all still keeps going back for more punishment.
 
Originally posted by Moon Child
Okay, while we're all having a whinge about the opposite sex....

Girl gets hair cut today. It's a totally new look but nothing ridiculous.

Girl gets home. Boy looks at girl like she's wearing an Eddie mask.

Boy says, "Do you like it?". Nothing else, just that.

Boy wonders why girl leaves the room without answering and refuses to discuss the haircut.

:)

Once, my auntie got a haircut when I was about 14, and my mum said "oh she is getting a new haircut so say how nice it looks" so I walk in first, see her and go "oh thats a nice haircut!" and then my mum and my cousins walk in and go "Oh my GOD! Thats horrible! What have they done!!!!!!! They hacked it to pieces!" "Oh mum thats awful!"

And this went on for about half an hour about how bad it was. Turns out it was the absolute worst one she ever received and she had to go back 3 times to fix it, she was quite angry.

The moral I hear you ask Moony?

Shut the F**K up until you can tell whether they like it or not ;) ;) :)
 
Originally posted by Wrathchild
You know what I'm sick of? Being considered "Mr Perfect Friend who's ideal to ring in an emergency because he can always cheer you up."

If you had idea the time I've wasted on the phone trying to get close to certain people and ended up as nothing more than a shoulder for them while they tell me all about how badly their current boyfriends treat them, you might understand why I prefer the company of books and movies these days :rolleyes:.

W

Oh that is exactly what's happened to me a couple of times in the past! I HATE IT! I've always seemed to end up "Mr Nice Friend Guy Who I Can Talk To About Problem With My New Boyfriend" to the girls I've liked haha. It's so frustrating.

Her: "My new boyfriend treats me like crap, like I don't even exist"
Me: "Should've gone out with me then." HAHAHA!
 
Originally posted by The Trooper
Oh that is exactly what's happened to me a couple of times in the past! I HATE IT! I've always seemed to end up "Mr Nice Friend Guy Who I Can Talk To About Problem With My New Boyfriend" to the girls I've liked haha. It's so frustrating.

Her: "My new boyfriend treats me like crap, like I don't even exist"
Me: "Should've gone out with me then." HAHAHA!

Yeah I've been there a dozen times when I was younger too.

I cut all that shit out though. I mean... if the girl WANTS to be with guys that treat her like shit, that's her problem, and I'll keep right out of it.