In all seriousness, in response to Sylice, and on a sociological note, stereotypical white people tend to see black people in particular as all into rap, all Tyler Perry fans, etc etc whatever whatever. And the only black person they'll notice as different is one who is visually counter culture. It is a shame that the only way for a person of color to stand out as an individual in the grand melting pot of public life is to have that thing about them that says hey, I'm not a stereotype.
It's not okay to be white. I would imagine black people in the scene are treated pretty well. Since everyone wants to be black.
I absolutely see what you're saying and understand if my point was misunderstood. Perhaps it's because we're having a conversation within the context of music and I was actually commentating within the entire scope of individuality.
If a black dude say goes to the store wearing a tech n9NE shirt he's just assumed to be a stereotype. Dude must play basketball, smoke weed and rap, right? Who's to say that guy doesn't go home and look at bugs under a microscope for fun? Meanwhile a black dude at a store in a Metallica shirt sets the stage in others minds of oh, he's unique, I bet he does unique things.
That's the kind of stripping of individuality I'm talking about. Music isn't the only indication of personality, but in the context of OP question, he'd find himself very welcome because of it.
Isn't Living Colour your favorite black metal band?
I only used music as an example because we were already talking about music and this is of course a music forum.
My overall problem with how you're framing this is that, other people asserting your individuality for you seems to me to be counter to the concept of individuality.
On a deserted island, is someone really an individual? Of course others play a part.
Think we're both bored of this conversation though, cheers. I have a Nanny marathon to watch and pizza to smash.
^at the risk of sounding ignorant don't people of the different areas in the UK have a similar accent to those around them? That subconscious camaraderie might play a part.
Stereotypes are just one of many wonderful skills humans have been endowed with for the purpose of rapidly sorting individuals into mental bins with significant implications in personal safety, time management, and mate-choosing, to name a few.
Being fat was usually a negative, but that will probably help with hanging out with you.
Did you correct a perceived grammatical/word-choice error in that quote?
Stereotypes are just one of many wonderful skills humans have been endowed with for the purpose of rapidly sorting individuals into mental bins with significant implications in personal safety, time management, and mate-choosing, to name a few.