How much whining is too much whining? when does talking about your problems or closing yourself to ultrapesimistic views becomes so annoying that no one can be around you because they either hate you or love you too much to tolerate you any further? what is more worth it to be a tortured person who keeps everything inside forever faking but actually having people to live and socialize with? or being open about everything trying to relief some pain with other people by talking about it but ending up completly alone in a world of misery anyway?