i miss you
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blackeyed
original rude boy
sorry, heh, im a bit strange at times;
was pleasently surprised to find men talking about love, desire etc, its a rare thing. i was saying how i cant seem to find an 'emotional type' so to speak - its because you are all on the continent, and the bit in brackets was me talking to myself....any better?
was pleasently surprised to find men talking about love, desire etc, its a rare thing. i was saying how i cant seem to find an 'emotional type' so to speak - its because you are all on the continent, and the bit in brackets was me talking to myself....any better?
siderea
soûl spy
Dhatura
New Metal Member
Dhatura
New Metal Member
blackeyed
original rude boy
eeek !!! i was generalising hugely, 'from my experience' shall i say, not so much to do with crying emotion - i dont know i think on a general scale guys from england are very different from my impression of guys from the continent (am i spelling this right by the way or is it continAnt?) heh emo boys, yeah there are a few but emo seems ot be strictly trucker caps and converse where im from, no substance to their tears heh, anyway im not talking about 'i want a guy that crys' or 'girls are more emotional than men' all im saying is i thought upon reading this, you guys are more reflective - or some shit......im trying not to offend, i hate doing that....god eeeeeek!!!
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Themanwithnoname
i miss myself alot, in the past it has been easier to communicate to myself and what i was. now things like all the hassle you face everyday thats outside of me is gettin between me and myself.
blackeyed
original rude boy
guess im appealing to stereotype really - another form of social conditioning, you'll all turn out to be bastards in the end, ummmm sorry, thats a sweeping statement im not sure whether i actually mean it or not, just makes me feel better, kinda 'its nothing to do with me because its natural law that all men will turn out to be bastards' - i know it may not be the case, but im comfortable with it for now
Dhatura
New Metal Member
I think you find emotional guys here because this is the Anathema forum.
Loosely relating to this topic... My sister's friend has met someone on the net (DC++), and they were talking on MSN quite a lot, then they exchanged photos (well, the guy sent only a child picture of him), and then they met. And the sistah's friend was HUGELY disappointed, the guy turned out to be a liar, exaggerating or making up his merits, in fact a semi-psychopath with no self-esteem, tyring to compensate for it by belittling the girl, saying that she's gonna miss her chance to be happy if she doesn't want to go out with him. I've heard a lot of times this shit happens, some said they've never found good people on the net, and I never understand it cause the people I've met on the net and then met them in reality are my people and has not disappointed me like this. Maybe I'm too lucky, I don't know. But coming here, on the Anathema forum, I presuppose most of the people here are like me, so I somehow feel I trust them to the extent one trusts people one knows personally. It's just too funny an idea thinking it's Anathema (and music) that makes us similar, but for me it's such an important fact that I base my judgement upon it.
Loosely relating to this topic... My sister's friend has met someone on the net (DC++), and they were talking on MSN quite a lot, then they exchanged photos (well, the guy sent only a child picture of him), and then they met. And the sistah's friend was HUGELY disappointed, the guy turned out to be a liar, exaggerating or making up his merits, in fact a semi-psychopath with no self-esteem, tyring to compensate for it by belittling the girl, saying that she's gonna miss her chance to be happy if she doesn't want to go out with him. I've heard a lot of times this shit happens, some said they've never found good people on the net, and I never understand it cause the people I've met on the net and then met them in reality are my people and has not disappointed me like this. Maybe I'm too lucky, I don't know. But coming here, on the Anathema forum, I presuppose most of the people here are like me, so I somehow feel I trust them to the extent one trusts people one knows personally. It's just too funny an idea thinking it's Anathema (and music) that makes us similar, but for me it's such an important fact that I base my judgement upon it.
cedarbreed
Don't mean nothin'
Dhatura
New Metal Member
blackeyed
original rude boy
yeah i agree, this happened to me also, well maybe not to this extent i just met a guy in manchester, as i was going out anyway i suggested we meet up if he was going to a particular club; he was a little strange i think....Dhatura said:
and im going to shut up now anyway - i wasnt saying that girls are saints infact far from it. i was just making something up to console myself.
Dhatura
New Metal Member
This is how I see things on the basis of the small amount of experience I've had:
Guys are no better or worse, they've got the same fears. They're different though in some respects cause they have to be. But they're still lovely in their own way :Spin:
Guys are no better or worse, they've got the same fears. They're different though in some respects cause they have to be. But they're still lovely in their own way :Spin:
Dhatura
New Metal Member
sol83 said:so are we then.
Oh, yes, if you can lead me to the right direction I'll kiss your feet. And I'm serious!
