I didn't derail anything. I've said plenty of times that I think Into Eternity is an awesome band, I just had a very bad experience with Tim (the rest of the band is genuinely awesome, though) and it has affected my view on him as a person and I am very much entitled to that opinion, thank you very much. I'm glad you guys think he's cool but it's gonna take a lot more than that to change my mind, sorry to say. Either way it's not going to stop me from going to shows and supporting the band.
fyi I have never said anything about my opinion mattering more than any one of you and I have never claimed to be some kind of metal know at all. I have in fact, said quite the contrary several times. I guess it's because I'm a newbie here that I'm not allowed to have an opinion.