Huh? How in the world is buying music something we should be ashamed of? Record labels and artists should be seeing *more* money from those of us who buy electronically; if anyone should feel ashamed, it's CD buyers! (though of course no one who pays for music in any form should feel ashamed).
As far as distros/retailers go: eh. I'm a fan of music. I buy music because I like to listen to music, not because I'm a fan of middle-men and like to give them my money. If middle-men are needed to get music from an artist's mind to my ears, then I will gladly pay them their fair share. But if they aren't, I'm not going to continue giving my money to them out of some sense of historical obligation.
heh...what kind of bizarro world do you live in where the removal of scarcity is a BAD thing? If food could be replicated and downloaded freely, would you be against that too, because it might end hunger? It's not like artists ever saw any benefit from scarcity; rarity-induced high prices only ever helped middle-men, and hurt music fans.
Maybe not "scared", but you do a remarkable job of seeing everything familiar to you as a positive, and everything unfamiliar as a negative. Reminds me of your Grampa Diabolik (who was actually slightly *less* curmudgeonly than you!) Let's go the archive and see what he was posting here in 1986:
Yep, you're pretty much a chip off the old block!
Neil