Corsair
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Now here is exactly why I agreed to lay this topic to rest. Personal opinions are one thing, but personal assaults are completely fucked up and ridiculous! I don't recall stating that CDs were going away, I believe that the consensus here is that it will become a niche market. Comments about the internet...taken totally out of context again. This was a statement about the disconnection with the "real world", people who spend their lives in their little cave, only connecting through the internet instead of interacting face to face. Who cares where you met your fiancee, nobody targeted you. If the shoe fits, wear it! If you hover in your little cave and socially interact with a PC screen, then you will take this personally. I don't rightly give a fuck! Since when did an opinion on a message board become negative and bitchmoaning? It's an opinion, nothing more, nothing less.
I personally will not support a MP3 file or FLAC or whatever. That doesn't mean that I am against YOU supporting it. Its a personal choice. Same with using the internet to meet people IF you have opportunities to meet in the "real world". The "grumpy old man nonsense" theory is a bold and, frankly, retarded statement.
My wife and I have been to every Progpower since IV (with the exception of the Therion year), and if I had to total the amount of people who I go to see on a year to year basis as compared to "the music" I'd place that number at less than 5. I go solely for the music. I don't even bother to stay in midtown anymore, due to rising costs. I am there to see the bands. If I make a few friends along the way, great! If not, oh well.
See you in the dealers room! Boy, I sure hope nobody has setup an internet kiosk where you can purchase your music and hook your iPod right up to grab it. I'll feel like a total asshat carrying my bag of cds around that I can't even listen to until I get back home on Monday. At least I will still feel connected with my past.
First off, I wasn't making any personal attacks, and i'm sorry if you feel attacked or in any way threatened by my post.
Not only was the post not directed at anyone personally, I also feel that you missed the point of my post entirely. Let me explain myself:
Grazing over a majority of the posts in this thread, one gets the impression that many of the veteran posters around here are very much set in their ways. Absolutely nothing wrong with that at all, at least 'til it starts to take a condescending, or superior attitude towards anything that doesn't fit quite so nicely into the expectations that they have come to feel entitled to be placated with, comes off somewhat thusly:
Yes, you are entitled to whatever opinion you might possess, and the right to voice that opinion, but when what is being said essentially amounts to "Back in *MY* day...we (x) and WE LIKED IT! You whippersnappers nowadays (y) instead of (x) and will never understand or appreciate (x) Like we did!" - consider that it might actually come off as insulting or condescending, to those who (y) regardless of intent. Samewise, you ought to then expect those who (y) might come right back and assert - "(y) is fine, and your attitude about it is ridiculous and irrational. Let's walk uphill both ways in 3 feet of snow, while we're at it." Getting all defensive about it just makes your day worse.
Given the subjective nature of experience, and that mutability of cultural trends, it seems like a waste of time to feel threatened (Again, I'm not referring to you personally.) by new technology and the convenience it brings or even lament it's encroachment. Get used to it.
As far as the "nobody cares [...] fiancee." It goes both ways. I don't rememebr who posted it, it may have even been you, posted something about where they met theirs (at a record store) - no, nobody really cares about that either; it's merely to assert the idea that indeed - things have changed in the way we interact with each other, but that doesn't mean it's a better or worse way to go about it, and that associating that 'new' way with being a basement dwelling troglodyte with no meaningful social life is a little bit insulting. No, a person being insulted by an assertion does not mean taht it applies to them. If I were to say that your attachment to an obsolete medium meant that you were a regressive, senseless neanderthal, who is ruled by illogical and childish notions - If you feel insulted by that, and display an emotional reaction to the statement, it does not mean that it's true, and in fact, it just makes me seem like a bellicose asshole.
Anyways, you're being condescending and don't even realize it; yet are very quick to point out when others are doing it. Be careful in doing so, as it becomes very easy to venture into hypocrisyland, going down that road.