It´s over - 3 years relationship ;(

[Felix Neumann]

Hi dudes

The last days were the hardest days of my life. It´s over and I´m not longer engaged. We´ve struggled hard to save our relationship in the last days..but it isn´t working anymore. This is so fucking hard. It´s time to get drunk now!

 

[SocialNumb]

That sucks dude. Get your drink on. (don't do anything stupid) This is why I most likely will never get married among other factors.

Party on!

 

[Jind]

Sorry to hear things have not worked out for you Felix - I think many of us have been there at one time or another in our lives as well and know how painful a failed relationship can be. You work so hard to make them work, but sometimes fate intervenes and it just does not happen. Tip back a drink my friend and put in in the rear view mirror - better days are ahead despite how hard that may be to believe at this moment.

Cheers Felix (tipping one back for you.)

 

[SocialNumb]

I'll tip a few as well!

 

[Lasse Lammert]

fuck, sorry to hear.
echt Kacke

Manchmal geht's einfach nicht weiter, hoffentlich läuft das bei euch so gesittet wie möglich ab um den Stress nicht noch zu verschlimmern.
Alles gute auf jeden Fall für die nächsten Tage.

 

[JMarz]

Fuck man, I'm so sorry. Believe me when I tell ya that I know the feeling.. Surely you two ended on good terms though? Also, I condone drinking away temporary problems as much as the next person.. But DO NOT rely on it to get over the pain, under any circumstance, whatsoever!

Feel better bro, realize it's a small emotional roadbump on the highway to greatness!



Also, small tip, sometimes they say it's easier to get over a relationship when you ABSOLUTELY hate the person.. I don't foresee that happening at all, and it varies/depends on a lot of factors in a relationship.. But it certainly helped for me given the circumstance.

 

[Trevoire520]

Been there dude, can feel like losing a limb huh? Better things are ahead though. Enjoy the freedom of being single and able to do what you like without having to answer to anyone for a while.

 

[Nuno Filipe]

I understand you. Remember when I said in the mail that I have shit to solve, it´s that kind of issues, not the same but similar. Relationships are so fucked up. They can really consume a men to the bones. Unfortunately everything has an end but sometimes it´s better to be alone anyway. Get drunk and forget that shit.

 

[Trevoire520]

I condone drinking away temporary problems as much as the next person.. But DO NOT rely on it to get over the pain, under any circumstance, whatsoever!

Big +1 to that. Quite easy to drink away a year of your life doing that if you're not careful. There are no answers to be found at the bottom of a glass, only a giant beer belly!

 

[Felix Neumann]

Thank you very much, dudes. It´s really good to read the kind words, after this is happened. Absolutely NO hate is the case, we went our own ways in peace.

I didn´t sleep 5 days and the only stuff I´ve consumed was coffee & cigarettes. Uncertainty made me feel crazy!! I´m sure, I´ll sleep better tonight...cause I´m fucking tired and I finally know, what the fuck is going on.

echt Kacke

Manchmal geht's einfach nicht weiter, hoffentlich läuft das bei euch so gesittet wie möglich ab um den Stress nicht noch zu verschlimmern.
Alles gute auf jeden Fall für die nächsten Tage.

Danke Lasse!

Auf jeden Fall wird es so sein. Wir lieben uns noch, aber wir kommen nicht mehr miteinander klar. Böses Blut wird es keines geben..und zumindestens DAS ist mal positiv.

 

[updog]

fuck man, sorry to hear that... the end of a 3-year relationship is hard, I've been there...

 

[Lasse Lammert]

Danke Lasse!

Auf jeden Fall wird es so sein. Wir lieben uns noch, aber wir kommen nicht mehr miteinander klar. Böses Blut wird es keines geben..und zumindestens DAS ist mal positiv.

Da war ich auch schon, hat lange gedauert
verstehen uns aber auch jetzt nach 10 Jahren noch

 

[slashvanyoung]

Sorry to hear that, bro!

These are the times I really wish we were living closer together because I'd totally come over to cheer you up if I could. With a six-pack of course!

 

[Felix Neumann]

My home is full of stuff & gifts from her..now I know, for what I can use the attic

Sorry to hear that, bro!
These are the times I really wish we were living closer together because I'd totally come over to cheer you up if I could. With a six-pack of course!

Haha yeah, that would be totally cool now I expect some visit of some mates in the next minutes..it´s a shame, gas stations don´t sell alcohol anymore after 22:00 in fuckin Baden. At least, I have some cigarettes.

 

[Felix Neumann]

Da war ich auch schon, hat lange gedauert
verstehen uns aber auch jetzt nach 10 Jahren noch

Ich werd mich auf jeden Fall die nächsten Monate nicht bei ihr melden. Hab total kein Bock, irgendwann mal von irgend einem supertollen neuen Macker zu erfahren...sowas kann einen dann schonmal richtig killen.

 

[spioraid]

Glad to hear there's no hate, those come back bite you hard later in life. I'm sorry you're going through a tough one like this!

Chug one back for me bro, I'll do the same for you. Keep your stick on the ice!

 

[kev]

sucks to hear it felix. Time to kick back with some beers and enjoy world cup 2010!

 

[Felix Neumann]

Thanks a lot, dudes Yeah..I´m really glad, worldcup is now..it´ll bring some needed distraction.

 

[Ermz]

Nothing better than watching the world cup with some mates and beer to help you get over your woes, man. Really sorry to hear, but you will get over it and you will move on to either a more fitting relationship or a blissful bachelorhood . Remember, if it was meant to end then you've just done the necessary thing. No need prolonging a relationship that doesn't work.

I've been with my girl for 4 years, so if that ever ends you'll know... I'm sure it'd hit me pretty hard too man, as it would anybody.

Take care.

 

[Skinny Viking]

VERY sorry to hear this bro

Its never an easy thing to go through I know but here's what I've learned ...

Its perfectly fine to give yourself a few days to walk around in misery. Don't shower, don't eat, live off coffee, smokes & booze, get pissed off, get sad, etc .... After a few days, pull your shit together, eat something, take a damn shower and in general START LOOKING OUT FOR YOURSELF. The most important thing to be worried about at this point is yourself. Do what makes you feel better and happy because you are no longer responsible for anyone else's well being but your own. You'll be fine. Hang with your buddies and for the love of Sneap and that weird spaghetti thing some of you guys worship, don't take more than $100 to a strip club!!!