TheWinterSnow
Den Mørke Natt
You summed it up perfectly. Seems like an orgyfest of friends and the choice of who is in and who isn't makes no logical sense, among other things around here, like you said, including the local music scene/everyone general taste in music. As big as this city is, its amazing that it still feels so damn small with the, everyone knows everyone. One click will overlap into another and before you know it, you just may know someone that you have never met. That chick that you where with sounds like my Uncles current girl, she would be (and still are) dating and for the longest time she would refuse to knowledge that they where dating and then tried breaking shit off after she realized things where getting serious, which seems way too common around here.
You also made very good mention that all the decent girls are either married, taken by the "cool guy"/douche or have kids and/or are burnt out.
And when the fuck did this turn into a feel sorry for me and tell me I should fuck hookers thread? I need no sympathy, its not the fact of getting laid, more a frustration of being single, which while sucks is not the end of the world although it does make me quite bitter.
I don't really have much of a confidence issue, yeah I may know in the back of my head that I am not the greatest looking guy so therefore in public I am not going to get as many looks and it becomes a little harder to reel them in, but if I don't feel anything while being in a conversation that a girl is involved in, I will treat them like they are any other guy, and if they aren't talking tend to not pay attention to them and keep my attention to whoever has the floor. That was actually how I met my ex who was a 10. First time I saw her I thought oh, out of my league...*shrug* and went on talking to other people she knew throughout the day, and eventually she got tired of me not noticing her and decided to make a move.
The Not giving a shit attitude works only if whatever else you are doing sparks the girls attention, and when I do get their attention, I throw in the humor and ball busting and once I have that I know how to take it from there as after that point, its alway been successful, its just been a long time that my don't give a shit attitude hasn't caught any attention in a while as it seems no matter where I am at because all of the girls have already given their attention to some other dude, so I am like, ok outta here, next and I move on. Its just doing something or saying something mutual that gets their attention that is pretty hard. I have a weird personality that is like nails on a chalkboard to most women, to run into a girl that not only is NOT annoyed by me, but is rooting me on because they have a near identical personality to me is fucking rare, its just a matter of getting out in public more in more social events.
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