Males and Females

so the girl im 99% positive has muh bebeh in her tummeh stopped using facebook like 4 or 5 months ago...and she popped up on my news feed like yesterday. ive always thought about it of course since i stopped contat with her, but it's pretty heavy when all of a sudden the girl pops up on my computer with a HUGE belly. and its a going to be a girl. i'm torn as fuck
 
she did disable her profile. and let's put it this way...when i first found out she was pregnant, she was 12 weeks pregnant. exactly 12 weeks after we hooked up. now she's 6 months pregnant and i havent talked to her in months.
 
Legally the law falls waaaay in favor of moms, so she can suck you dry so start saving. No guarantee she will, and maybe she'll have a miscarriage or something, but better safe than sorry.

I went to a wedding yesterday, was very happy for the couple. I didn't get the "wedding fever" that chicks my age are supposed to get, and I had to leave before they served the fucking cake.

Things with MP are good. I was cranky all day so he bought me ice cream and put me to bed to take a nap.
 
Facebook is like a beacon of all the fun I'm not having with other people because I don't have many friends. Fuck you, facebook!
 
Yeah man! If I want to fucking eat pizza and play video games on a Friday night I should be able to eat pizza and play video games on a Friday night!!!!
 
I don't really do that. I just don't hang out with people all the time, and it feels lonely, but whenever I spend too much time around people I just eventually stop talking and want to break something.
 
Zeph what's the update???!

Long story short, via texts etc I cornered her into admitting she was attracted to me and that it wasn't just in order for me to send her money. We've talked on the phone a lot and she appears very honest. She lives an hour away and we both work but she's going to come over on Friday.

She said she added me on FB because she saw a picture of me wearing my patch jacket. It works, dudes.
 
So I think I am now at peace with the break up with the ex. Not that I don't still care for her deeply (I think she'll always be important to me) but I am basically at peace with the idea of not being with her. The idea of it doesn't put a knot in my stomach anymore. I think it was the trip to Spain that did something to my mind, something along the lines of other women exist and they will pay attention to me. I'm usually really insecure about that kind of stuff. I think the older you get, the better you're able to handle break ups. It's just a psychological mechanism that you develop out of necessity.

In other news, I made a profile on okcupid. I'm not really serious about it, I think it's kind of funny, and I don't actually see myself dating anybody in the near future. I'm just experimenting with it to see if I have some kind of game on this online crap. I've heard horror stories about how the response rate is so low, blah blah blah, whatever. Well I've only been on there two days, I've contacted a total of like 4 chicks and I now have some cute Asian chick messaging me. I think that's reasonable success considering the odds. I doubt that will amount to anything though and I don't really care.

I might actually be sort of content with my life right now. At least it's fairly stable in an emotional sense. What a relief.

edit: Also, so many of the women in Spain are drop-dead gorgeous and it seems like almost all of them are in shape. My God, what a country.



Dude, that is fantastic. Good job.

I'm on okcupid - for the most part is stupid. But, it may work for you..
Keep us posted!

Oh snap, I'm on OKCupid, too. I've had a few profiles on there over the years. I've had little success on it though :erk:
 
So I just hooked up with a girl, who used to date a friend. Said friend took ages to achieve what I achieved in 2 hours. Dunno what to think.
 
Pat yourself on the back, that's what. Unless you are deceiving and upsetting your friend.

Zeph - AWESOME! Super exciting, what do you have planned for Friday?

Cythraul - Sounds like you're doing OK for yourself on OKCupid so far (durhurhur). Your odds are looking good: http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/ I have been browsing OKCupid lately seeing what kinds of people in general are around, looks like a small pool of even borderline acceptable people of both sexes.

And yeah, Romance-speaking European birds are pretty much universally within an "acceptable" body type. Is the situation really that severe at home? I know 70% of the people in the U.S. are at least "overweight" but it's really, really hard to picture right now.