Males and Females

The whole thing's kinda complex, so idk if i'm really doing her justice here. I certainly don't hate her, and i'd like to stay friends if at all convenient. Obviously i'm free to protest the situation by not hanging out with her, and that might well help things along, especially if this friend of mine (who hasn't known her that long really) gets tired of her. As long as it still appears to her that it's just me being butthurt while everyone else is having a good time, i don't have much of a case to make.
 
oh, @zeph: it's not my call to push my friend in one direction or the other over her. He's smart enough to see what's going on, he's just not ready to come to any conclusions yet. I can't blame him, because if she really turns out to like him a lot it would be a pretty epic win for him.
 
I think it would be better to just show disinterest in her on a romantic level. In my experience, it can really fuck with someone when you express interest in them, get denied, and then pull off acting like nothing happened. It can raise questions like "am I not that valuable that my rejection was taken so lightly?" or "have they found another interest?"

Maybe I've smoked too much, but it's basic, right? If someone rejects someone, it's expected for the one being rejected to feel bad on some level, but when they don't, then it beckons the rejector's curiosity to find the reason for such incongruity.
 
her arguments, no matter how valid they may be, portray a self-centered, holier-than-thou, pseudo-intellectual with an inflated sense of how "desirable" she is. girls like that need to be stripped down and shat on, her self-esteem shattered.
 
What's the problem with her again? Didn't she just refuse him? That's pretty normal so I don't see where's all this hate coming from.
 
her arguments, no matter how valid they may be, portray a self-centered, holier-than-thou, pseudo-intellectual with an inflated sense of how "desirable" she is. girls like that need to be stripped down and shat on, her self-esteem shattered.

It would be so much simpler if he could just pay her money to make up for his complete and utter lack of ability to attract women.
 
Does anyone else not see what chinagirl did wrong? I mean, I fully understand why grant is upset. He has feelings for the girl and she not only doesn't return them but maybe wants to bone his friend. That fucking sucks, but...that's life. That's how it goes. People like people who don't like them back. She doesn't really sound like a bitch at all. She sounds pretty reasonable. So...drop her as a friend if you need to, but don't hold a grudge or anything.
Unless there are extenuating circumstances, in which case as unknown says, the remote CP and anonymous tip thing.