Well fuck, its been about 6 months now in my relationship and everything's been mostly good. I honestly figured this could be long term, I care for her very much, and we work very well together...
But in comes an ex of mine who I had never really gotten over, who I swear I probably never will, and we talk for a bit...and she wants to give things another go. I want to, but say I need to figure things out.
The obvious thing to do would be to stick with what I've got already, its working...but a part of me just is saying "Look, take your chance...things are different now and can work."
I feel like Dante in Clerks II except the choice isn't so obvious as it was for him.
some of my closest friends are females of my own race. most of them look okay physically, i mean they have pleasant, kind faces and stuff, but i don't find them sexually attractive because they're too familiar; it'd be like fucking my sister would be gross. our relationships are just nice brotherly-sisterly ones.
some of my closest friends are females of my own race. most of them look okay physically, i mean they have pleasant, kind faces and stuff, but i don't find them sexually attractive because they're too familiar; it'd be like fucking my sister would be gross. our relationships are just nice brotherly-sisterly ones.
I remember reading a study that said that sexy smells are the result of genes for immunity that are different from the one doing the smelling. It's to make us seek mates to create a better cross-pollination for our offspring. The sexiest smelling girl I've hooked up with was Indian (not the Indo-European kind), so that checks out.
I'm am sooooooo sick of being insecure. I know it magically prevents most women from finding you attractive, even if you're basically a good looking guy. I'm sick of seeing happy couples. I'm paranoid that white women don't like white men any more even though logically I know that's retarded.
seriously
you need to talk to people that actually know these 2 women
I wish I hadn't fetishized whiteness by being paranoid about white women. No white women in the world are going to feel the same way about white men so I'm always going to be a loser now.
Edit:
There are fat bitches that like bullying insecure men into being rainy day fuckbuddies that never get girlfriends due to their self esteem never increasing. Fuck those fucking whales.
If you want good advice from us I suggest you elaborate on this.
So the long-distance ex is talking to me again, and seems to want to pick things up from where we left off, which when she told me, was like a blow to the gut; it triggered my anxiety hardcore.
The problem with this situation, is that I've been talking to this other girl (who actually lives nearby), we flirt, and I'm pretty sure she likes me back; I just haven't gotten around to telling her I like her.
But it's like... I still have unresolved feelings for the ex. I actually really missed the girl. wat do, gmd? Go for the ex, or keep my eyes on the target?