Males and Females

I'm with Krow and Cammy when it comes to my own relationship, but we entered into this thing under the premise of a jealousy-sterile environment. So sometimes I'll grab someone else's ass, whether it's just a joke or by request. And sometimes she'll lean over and whisper into my ear that the person we're kicking it with would be prime threesome material, and we'll have some short banter over it. So the pressure's off there, because we both really enjoy our sex life and know that we wouldn't drop what we have to move on to something else in a dishonest or miscommunicated fashion.

But in your situation, Cody, I'd probably have a similar outlook to yours. Communication and empathy are the foundation of your confidence in this relationship and you're not getting what you need, so you should probably talk to the girl about it to see if you can shift that paradigm.
 
The girl from french class texts me all the time. And we're supposed to go to some show tomorrow. Some blues-rock bands or something. I'm going to grab her ass and see her face when I do that. Daym.

Ok so the response was very positive. I just returned from her place.

Her place is a lonely little house on a top of a hill above a quiet village near Prague. You have to go through a forest to get there. She has a garden with trees and a grilling place and shit and a view of a river and the opposite hills. Best place ever.
 
That sounds really nice. Did you grab-ass?

Cody - How flirty are we talking?

It does take some warm-up time to get over the "pretending not to have feelings" hump, but if you're talking daily, hanging and banging, and dating, she should be able to read the situation and make it obvious that she is into you, even without an explicit proclamation. It seems like you're a pretty intuitive guy with good social skills, so it's not like you can't pick up on signals.

Jealousy sucks. It's my least favorite emotion because I can't control it!
 
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I think anal sex is kind of fucked up really. It's weird how it became the done to thing to do it to girls. It's really, really fucked up. Fuck the world.
 
Every time I read about periods and anal sex in this thread I become slightly more asexual.

I used to cringe at the thought of eating raw fish. Now I risk breaking the bank with my order whenever I go out for sushi.

Spending too much time in your head is a fool's errand when it comes to the finer things in life, especially those that you haven't tried.
 
Spending too much time in your head is a fool's errand when it comes to the finer things in life, especially those that you haven't tried.

*Spending too much time debating those things on this forum.