Eligos
Problem Yet to be Solved
I'm with Krow and Cammy when it comes to my own relationship, but we entered into this thing under the premise of a jealousy-sterile environment. So sometimes I'll grab someone else's ass, whether it's just a joke or by request. And sometimes she'll lean over and whisper into my ear that the person we're kicking it with would be prime threesome material, and we'll have some short banter over it. So the pressure's off there, because we both really enjoy our sex life and know that we wouldn't drop what we have to move on to something else in a dishonest or miscommunicated fashion.
But in your situation, Cody, I'd probably have a similar outlook to yours. Communication and empathy are the foundation of your confidence in this relationship and you're not getting what you need, so you should probably talk to the girl about it to see if you can shift that paradigm.
But in your situation, Cody, I'd probably have a similar outlook to yours. Communication and empathy are the foundation of your confidence in this relationship and you're not getting what you need, so you should probably talk to the girl about it to see if you can shift that paradigm.