Males and Females

[viewerfromnihil]

Agreeing with Kingster here. If that's a girl (let alone the ONLY!) that you can imagine having a long term relationship with, you must have some saggy-ass standards when it comes relationships.

I wouldn't say that. She's hot and very intelligent. She was my first and only steady relationship, so that plays a part in my stance, but she was also the first girl who I found myself interested in for longer than a couple of fucks. Her only downfall was a lack of confidence and anxiety issues, which probably played into her getting herself into this conundrum. Of course, this has changed my opinion of her, but I wouldn't take it to the extent that you are. You seem to be coming from the stance that "women who fuck are bad people," obviously an erroneous position.

 

[The Butt]

Haha, I'm glad that I have a negative influence on your life. Smoke Beers and worship Satan. Heavy metal vomit party drink a thousand beers.

Best post in GMD Social.

 

[Onder]

This isn't just "punching someone"... this is a GIRL breaking a dude's nose.

Punching someone harder doesn't make you a lesser loser.

 

[-CC-]

You seem to be coming from the stance that "women who fuck other dudes while in a relationship are bad people," obviously an erroneous position.

Fixed it for ya.

EDIT: With or without consent.

 

[SentinelSlain]

I hate bad girls so fucking much.

 

[Dak]

I wouldn't say that. She's hot and very intelligent. She was my first and only steady relationship, so that plays a part in my stance, but she was also the first girl who I found myself interested in for longer than a couple of fucks. Her only downfall was a lack of confidence and anxiety issues, which probably played into her getting herself into this conundrum. Of course, this has changed my opinion of her, but I wouldn't take it to the extent that you are. You seem to be coming from the stance that "women who fuck are bad people," obviously an erroneous position.

Borderline PD signatures.

 

[Eligos]

I hate bad girls so fucking much.

You hate yourself. Women are just an easy object to project your self-hatred onto.

 

[crimsonfloyd]

You hate yourself. Women are just an easy object to project your self-hatred onto.

Well said.

 

[monoxide_child]

her getting herself into this conundrum.

i really don't see her situation as a "conundrum"
if she's happy whith what's going on,
then let her do whatever the fuck she wants sexually

 

[Eligos]

Fixed it for ya.

EDIT: With or without consent.

I would argue that the moral dilemma of cheating stems from dishonesty, not the actual sexual element. There's an implied dissent toward cheating when two people enter a relationship, but if this fellow's expressed a desire for something open, then Black Orifice's ex isn't doing anything wrong.

 

[monoxide_child]

I would argue that the moral dilemma of cheating stems from dishonesty, not the actual sexual element. There's an implied dissent toward cheating when two people enter a relationship, but if this fellow's expressed a desire for something open, then Black Orifice's ex isn't doing anything wrong.

this is exactly what i was trying to say in my last post
you just articulated it much better

 

[Master_Yoda77]

You hate yourself. Women are just an easy object to project your self-hatred onto.

I hate White Power Bill.

 

[Mort Divine]

Fixed it for ya.

EDIT: With or without consent.

Not all people have purely monogamous relationships...
it doesn't make something like this bad...

 

[monoxide_child]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-monogamy

 

[viewerfromnihil]

Fixed it for ya.

EDIT: With or without consent.

Says the moral majority.

Borderline PD signatures.

Yeah, she did have some issues. She was on anti-depressants before we got together, but stopped taking them right before we began dating. I think my influence helped her remain on level ground, but that seems to have dropped off since we separated. She mentioned to me, for example, that she has been visiting a therapist.

i really don't see her situation as a "conundrum"
if she's happy whith what's going on,
then let her do whatever the fuck she wants sexually

That's just it though, I'm not sure that she is. She told me that it was fun and an opportunity that never comes around, but she said that there are plenty of elements of monogamy that she misses. It seems like it's going to be a brief fling, honestly. She 22 and is one of those women that have their eyes on the clock. Plus, she wants a family within the next few years (one of the reasons why we separated) and, obviously, marrying a guy who's shit doesn't work and gets off on living his sexual fantasies through other men fucking his woman does not fit with the accepted variables for a long-term relationship.

 

[monoxide_child]

That's just it though, I'm not sure that she is. She told me that it was fun and an opportunity that never comes around, but she said that there are plenty of elements of monogamy that she misses. It seems like it's going to be a brief fling, honestly. She 22 and is one of those women that have their eyes on the clock. Plus, she wants a family within the next few years (one of the reasons why we separated) and, obviously, marrying a guy who's shit doesn't work and gets off on living his sexual fantasies through other men fucking his woman does not fit with the accepted variables for a long-term relationship.

if she's having a problem with her new relationship
it's her problem, not yours
...unless you want to take her back and impregnate her

 

[viewerfromnihil]

The only way I'd be into that is if she happens to go to law school at a campus near where-ever it is that I'll be going to grad school, but that's years away. And it's certainly not something that's fits my immediate or long-term interests at present.

 

[monoxide_child]

The only way I'd be into that is if she happens to go to law school at a campus near where-ever it is that I'll be going to grad school, but that's years away. And it's certainly not something that's fits my immediate or long-term interests at present.

going from what you yourself wrote

i would say that if you're not willing to impregnate her right now

then her relationship problems are definately not your problems

let her have her fucked up relationship and worry about yourself

 

[Eligos]

I hate Power Bill.

I too hate power bill. Especially since I moved into new apartment with central air. So expensive.

I've been seeing this girl over the last week:





She's somewhat of an enigma and has a legitimate fear of the social conventions involved in relationships. I tried to kiss her on our second date and she turned her cheek on me. She still wants to see me again and "get to knoew me better" though, and I'm not quite sure what to make of the whole thing.

 

[unknown]

looks and sound pretentious...cute though