Males and Females

I wouldn't say that. She's hot and very intelligent. She was my first and only steady relationship, so that plays a part in my stance, but she was also the first girl who I found myself interested in for longer than a couple of fucks. Her only downfall was a lack of confidence and anxiety issues, which probably played into her getting herself into this conundrum. Of course, this has changed my opinion of her, but I wouldn't take it to the extent that you are. You seem to be coming from the stance that "women who fuck are bad people," obviously an erroneous position.

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Fixed it for ya.

EDIT: With or without consent.

I would argue that the moral dilemma of cheating stems from dishonesty, not the actual sexual element. There's an implied dissent toward cheating when two people enter a relationship, but if this fellow's expressed a desire for something open, then Black Orifice's ex isn't doing anything wrong.
 
I would argue that the moral dilemma of cheating stems from dishonesty, not the actual sexual element. There's an implied dissent toward cheating when two people enter a relationship, but if this fellow's expressed a desire for something open, then Black Orifice's ex isn't doing anything wrong.

this is exactly what i was trying to say in my last post
you just articulated it much better
 
Fixed it for ya.

EDIT: With or without consent.

Says the moral majority.


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Yeah, she did have some issues. She was on anti-depressants before we got together, but stopped taking them right before we began dating. I think my influence helped her remain on level ground, but that seems to have dropped off since we separated. She mentioned to me, for example, that she has been visiting a therapist.


i really don't see her situation as a "conundrum"
if she's happy whith what's going on,
then let her do whatever the fuck she wants sexually

That's just it though, I'm not sure that she is. She told me that it was fun and an opportunity that never comes around, but she said that there are plenty of elements of monogamy that she misses. It seems like it's going to be a brief fling, honestly. She 22 and is one of those women that have their eyes on the clock. Plus, she wants a family within the next few years (one of the reasons why we separated) and, obviously, marrying a guy who's shit doesn't work and gets off on living his sexual fantasies through other men fucking his woman does not fit with the accepted variables for a long-term relationship.
 
That's just it though, I'm not sure that she is. She told me that it was fun and an opportunity that never comes around, but she said that there are plenty of elements of monogamy that she misses. It seems like it's going to be a brief fling, honestly. She 22 and is one of those women that have their eyes on the clock. Plus, she wants a family within the next few years (one of the reasons why we separated) and, obviously, marrying a guy who's shit doesn't work and gets off on living his sexual fantasies through other men fucking his woman does not fit with the accepted variables for a long-term relationship.

if she's having a problem with her new relationship
it's her problem, not yours
...unless you want to take her back and impregnate her
 
:lol:

The only way I'd be into that is if she happens to go to law school at a campus near where-ever it is that I'll be going to grad school, but that's years away. And it's certainly not something that's fits my immediate or long-term interests at present.
 
:lol:

The only way I'd be into that is if she happens to go to law school at a campus near where-ever it is that I'll be going to grad school, but that's years away. And it's certainly not something that's fits my immediate or long-term interests at present.

going from what you yourself wrote

i would say that if you're not willing to impregnate her right now

then her relationship problems are definately not your problems

let her have her fucked up relationship and worry about yourself
 
I hate Power Bill.

I too hate power bill. Especially since I moved into new apartment with central air. So expensive.

I've been seeing this girl over the last week:





She's somewhat of an enigma and has a legitimate fear of the social conventions involved in relationships. I tried to kiss her on our second date and she turned her cheek on me. She still wants to see me again and "get to knoew me better" though, and I'm not quite sure what to make of the whole thing.
 
does anybody remember me dating a girl that broke down and cried in the middle of the road??

she's here, and unless she randomly breaks down and starts crying again, i'm going to be making out with her in about 45 min

her body still seems so freaking wierd to me,
she's got really huge boobs but she's almost got buns-of-steel,
she just looks way too freaking top-heavy,
like one of those pornstars from back when everybody in porn had the huge-as-hell-fake boobs
exept her boobs are completely natural
when her boobs jiggle enough that you can see they're natural
then the smallness of her ass looks unnatural
it looks like somebody just liposuctioned a huge ass and pushed all that fat into her tits

made out with this girl^^ yesterday
 
i've just spend all morning making out with a crazy girl
wondering how to determine whether or not to sleep with her

i've decided to sleep with her and we scheduled it for thursday

actually scheduled sleeping with her for thursday, (today) but this morning she had an episode of breaking down and crying in the middle of the street (luckily it was a spot where there's little traffic and also a spot where cars could have easily swerved around her) and our sex was rescheduled for tommorrow,
she's been with me all day, and we ate at an italian resturaunt, i paid this time cuz she paid for our first meal togather at a different italian resturaunt, (dallas has 5 italian resturaunts that are all within easy walking distance of each other)
she's got a job, she works saturday-thru-wednesday with thursday and friday being her days off, so any sex we have is prolly going to be thursday/friday and right now it looks like i'll be having sex every week for the next couple of months
we've already done the whole "heavy petting/dry-humping" thing she's just really paranoid about getting arrested for "public lewdness"

i had sex with her all day friday, hung out with her saturday morning, before she went to work, and talked to her on the phone after her work and i'll probably talk to her on the phone later today and see her tomorrow

and the woman i'm talking about is 38

this^^ is the woman i was making out with yesterday