Marriage

[Su Jacko]

Would you? Do you want to? What does it mean to you?

 

[Alwin]

no. no. an unrealistic promise.

 

[Dhatura]

I guess I would, though I'd live in an unofficial but marriage-like relationship too, it's just that marriage is more legal than emotional. Definitely, the social status of married women is still higher, especially if they're with kids. But I feel I'm still considered a kid in my larger family cause I'm not married, unlike my cousins, who have kids now, even though I find their life boring.

Btw, I thought of this thing "don't let a relationship define you" --- but if a woman gets married, she even loses her name how wouldn't that define her then?

What really pisses me off is these benefits attached to the married state. For example, my sister was once chosen as a winner for a holiday voucher, but she didn't get it cause she's single. When we applied for a loan for the digital camera, she didn't get the best construction either.

 

[Su Jacko]

Btw, I thought of this thing "don't let a relationship define you" --- but if a woman gets married, she even loses her name how wouldn't that define her then?

Well you don't have to get married and if you do, in this day and age a woman can keep her maiden name.

 

[MetallicaSux]

Marriage ???? what's that?? can you eat it??

 

[DragonLady1]

no, I wouldnt...

 

[Dhatura]

Btw, I thought of this thing "don't let a relationship define you" --- but if a woman gets married, she even loses her name how wouldn't that define her then?

Well you don't have to get married and if you do, in this day and age a woman can keep her maiden name.

Yeah, in Hungary too, but I thought if you become a Mrs. you have to take your husband's name.

Well, I think women usually don't choose not to get married, they just stay in an unmarried state I mean to be able to choose you have to be proposed to, first of all, and that's what doesn't happen, haha.

 

[Alwin]

Well, I think women usually don't choose not to get married, they just stay in an unmarried state I mean to be able to choose you have to be proposed to, first of all, and that's what doesn't happen, haha.

you can ask someone yourself

 

[zupi_clone]

a mate of mine got married in a woods here, viking style, theyve long split up though, was just a phase he was going through he tells me

 

[Strangelight]

Yeah, in Hungary too, but I thought if you become a Mrs. you have to take your husband's name.

Well, I think women usually don't choose not to get married, they just stay in an unmarried state I mean to be able to choose you have to be proposed to, first of all, and that's what doesn't happen, haha.

this is proper bo 1900s! nice one

 

[Dhatura]

you can ask someone yourself

Can I? You sound to have seen Friends, haha.

Now really girls, would you propose to your man?

 

[Dhatura]

this is proper bo 1900s! nice one

It is, just like the whole institution of marriage. At least that's the way it's seen here in the east.

 

[zupi_clone]

dont marry an arab woman lads, they'll have yer head chopped if you go wrong

 

[Dhatura]

a mate of mine got married in a woods here, viking style, theyve long split up though, was just a phase he was going through he tells me

Yeah, that's the way I'd like it too

At Sziget fest you can get married, you even get an official certificate. You can get married to anyone or anything, even to your beer bottle, amazing how so many people do that.

 

[Dhatura]

dont marry an arab woman lads, they'll have yer head chopped if you go wrong

Noo, that's not true, they just cut out your heart and cook it.

 

[Su Jacko]

what does marriage bring to a relationhip though?

 

[Dhatura]

what does marriage bring to a relationhip though?

Expectations about one house, two cars and four kids.

 

[Su Jacko]

money and possessions then?

 

[Dhatura]

money and possessions then?

Yeah, I think so, something like "from now on we have the same budget and have the same objectives." A BMW, for example

 

[Alwin]