But to be honest, the US is in need of a bully. Not necessarily Trump, but the US needs a president who's not a very nice person after the last eight years of weakness. Obama is a nice guy and he tried, but that's pretty much all it was. I'm happy that they legalized homosexuality in the military, happy for the steps made for legalizing marijuana, and I'm happy that he was very diplomatic, but he was weak when we needed someone strong. That whole line in the sand he drew over Syria, and when the UK called his bluff he reneged...that was disgraceful.
I think Hillary has more balls and will throw her weight around more. I'm not a fan of her either, but I'd rather she become president than Trump. She's more of a hawkish Obama, and that's not necessarily a good thing, but I'll take that over Trump being completely clueless on how anything works in government and policy.
I've lived in Europe for the last 13 years, so I think I can say with fair certainty that I know where you're coming from. You have to realize just how inept Euro politicians and governments are in comparison to the US. Nothing ever changes in the EU, ever. Brexit is the first real thing to happen to the governments here in decades. European "leaders" are all about status quo, public image, and not rocking the boat. Consequently nothing really changes. Sure, jobs go up and down with the economy, there may be social unrest, funding gets cut here and diverted over there, but as a whole the EU really doesn't DO anything for anyone but themselves. They don't even pay their dues in NATO, and it's all for them.
When you vote, you usually vote for the person who will make your country look good, not necessarily what's best for your country. EU countries point fingers at each other so much that other EU countries' opinions of them dominate their policy and have more influence upon their country than the actual citizens. The US, while they would like to be liked and be popular in the world, they don't really care what anyone thinks because they don't have to. However, to keep the peace, deals have to be struck and negotiating is all about give and take. Pakistan is a hotbed of terrorism, yet we give them over a billion per year in aid. Why? To keep the nukes out of the hands of the terrorists. That's about to change, though.
Look at Duterte, the Filipino piece of shit president who literally cussed out Obama publicly and literally gave the US the finger. The US takes it because it has to, because greater things are at stake. We would all love to give him the finger, cut off all ties, take back our billions per year in aid we give to them and tell them good luck with China, but we can't because other things are at stake. We have to play the game. Donald Trump doesn't want to play that game, and even though it would be very, very satisfying to go around telling people to pay what they owe or fuck off, it's not a good foreign policy.