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Good sexual intercourse lasts minutes, not hours, therapists say

Penn State Erie researchers Eric Corty and Jenay Guardiani conducted a survey of 50 full members of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research, which include psychologists, physicians, social workers, marriage/family therapists and nurses who have collectively seen thousands of patients over several decades.

Thirty-four, or 68 percent, of the group responded and rated a range of time amounts for sexual intercourse, from penetration of the vagina by the penis until ejaculation, that they considered adequate, desirable, too short and too long.

The average therapists’ responses defined the ranges of intercourse activity times: "adequate," from 3-7 minutes; "desirable," from 7-13 minutes; "too short" from 1-2 minutes; and "too long" from 10-30 minutes.

"A man’s or woman’s interpretation of his or her sexual functioning as well as the partner’s relies on personal beliefs developed in part from society’s messages, formal and informal," the researchers said. “"Unfortunately, today’s popular culture has reinforced stereotypes about sexual activity. Many men and women seem to believe the fantasy model of large penises, rock-hard erections and all-night-long intercourse. "


Past research has found that a large percentage of men and women, who responded, wanted sex to last 30 minutes or longer.

"This seems a situation ripe for disappointment and dissatisfaction," said lead author Eric Corty, associate professor of psychology. "With this survey, we hope to dispel such fantasies and encourage men and women with realistic data about acceptable sexual intercourse, thus preventing sexual disappointments and dysfunctions."

Corty and Guardiani, then-undergraduate student and now a University graduate, are publishing their findings in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, but the article is currently available online.

The survey’s research also has implications for treatment of people with existing sexual problems.

"If a patient is concerned about how long intercourse should last, these data can help shift the patient away from a concern about physical disorders and to be initially treated with counseling, instead of medicine," Corty noted.

Source: Penn State

http://www.physorg.com/news126193410.html

Now there is an excuse!:lol:
 
LMAO. They got it so wrong. Control of will = last long time.

Not to mention, communication. If you have a damn good relationship and you talk together about what and where are the golden actions, 1-2 hours is realistic.

So many people think it's some kind of contest, that you just do it without saying a word, and the girl's supposed to go "oh yes" whether she really thinks so or not. And you don't even know if you're hitting the right spot, or if she's just laying there doing nothing fun. Communication = better sex, not pills or any psychobabble.
 
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LMAO. They got it so wrong. Control of will = last long time.

Not to mention, communication. If you have a damn good relationship and you talk together about what and where are the golden actions, 1-2 hours is realistic.

So many people think it's some kind of contest, that you just do it without saying a word, and the girl's supposed to go "oh yes" whether she really thinks so or not. And you don't even know if you're hitting the right spot, or if she's just laying there doing nothing fun. Communication = better sex, not pills or any psychobabble.

Fuck that dude, i have shit to do. yeah, communication is way important, but it doesn't have to last forever for both parties to be totally satisfied. I think the article (at least the part i read) was pretty right on.

Besides, the only reason i can think of to make sex last that long is to play with boobs, and i can do that while I watch a movie with the girl. Or while going grocery shopping.
 
:lol::lol::lol: amazing @ AC

Not saying it has to last that long to be good, but it can. It's like books. Some long books are good. Some short books are good. Content matters. The longer ones, to fit this analogy, have more positions.

1-2 min... Wow though. That's gotta suck.
 
LMAO. They got it so wrong. Control of will = last long time.

Not to mention, communication. If you have a damn good relationship and you talk together about what and where are the golden actions, 1-2 hours is realistic.

So many people think it's some kind of contest, that you just do it without saying a word, and the girl's supposed to go "oh yes" whether she really thinks so or not. And you don't even know if you're hitting the right spot, or if she's just laying there doing nothing fun. Communication = better sex, not pills or any psychobabble.

i agree with your theory reguarding communication. i think as long as you know what your partner likes and dislikes sex can b a longer experience. the big problem is that guys just wat to get off and go to bed. if you just put the time into being enthusiastic about it, the girl will want you for longer. even if yo feel like you just want to hump until your done, you need to have some self restraint. you have to make it fun the whole time if you are going to take it past 15 minutes. ken, 1-2 hours is rediculous unless you plan on cumming many times. and for a guy, you'd have to wait to recharge.

warning, the next paragraph is an overshare. but it makes sense to he conversation.

my sex life is fantastic. when my girlfriend and i are together we go about 3 times a night. it's something of an all night actvity. she surprises me with outfits alot to keep me coming back... even though i'd come back anyway, hahahah. and i surprise her with new positions and new interesting places to do it. we're VERY open sexually, and we'll talk about it without shame. she's havin multiple orgasms each tme, and sometimes so am i. we'll wat about a half an hour for me to recharge my member before going again. main idea, stay enthusiastic and be AGGRESSIVE. unless she doesn't like it that way, hahaha.
 
1-2 min... Wow though. That's gotta suck.

I think if the Penn state researches had interviewed members of the State pen then the figures would be dramatically different with 50% saying 1-2min too long.

Not to mention, communication. If you have a damn good relationship and you talk together about what and where are the golden actions, 1-2 hours is realistic.

Seriously...fuck that:lol:.....and fuck golden showers too Ken you pervert.
 
No one cares about the details of your sex life. I understand the point, but seriously dude...

hey man... i said it was an overshare. you didn't have to read. i was mearly pointing it out because i don't want you o think i'm giving advice on a topic i don't know anything about. can you not handle the details i gave?
 
I can handle the details, but no one cares. That's it. If anyone is interested in your sex life, it'd be cool if they can speak up. They can feel free to prove me wrong. I might be. Maybe there's someone who's way interested in your personal sex life. That'd be pretty cool huh?
 
Good sexual intercourse lasts minutes, not hours, therapists sayThe average therapists’ responses defined the ranges of intercourse activity times: "adequate," from 3-7 minutes; "desirable," from 7-13 minutes; "too short" from 1-2 minutes; and "too long" from 10-30 minutes.

lol, I feel sorry for anyone who lasts that short, XD
 
I've yet to have sex. Tips ?

Someone was telling me that female virgins cry ? Every happen to someone firsthand ?

i don't know man, i've heard this also. it's because gils need a bit of stretching to fit a normal guy and apparentlyti hurts the first few times you stretch it like that. i guess you should stick with using your hands for a while to get her downstairsused to it.

@ darkblade

Where do I get me one of those gfs ?!?! lol

hahah, my bedroom?

@1-2 minutes. that sucks for both parties involved HAHAHAHHA.
nah, there's lots of girls like that out there, but finidn one who has morals and isn't a skank is really hard.
 
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Fuckin' LOf'nL!

I think if the Penn state researches had interviewed members of the State pen then the figures would be dramatically different with 50% saying 1-2min too long.

Seriously...fuck that:lol:.....and fuck golden showers too Ken you pervert.

So the "catchers" would skew the results downward while the pitchers would skew the results upward? Lumpy showers suck! :Spin:

i don't know man, i've heard this also. it's because gils need a bit of stretching to fit a normal guy and apparentlyti hurts the first few times you stretch it like that. i guess you should stick with using your hands for a while to get her downstairsused to it.

Are you advocating fist-fucking for first-timers? Ouch! :zombie: