Matt, again you're not quite getting what I'm saying. I don't like wasting my time. I understand that not all people who model are fucked in the head, but most are. Given this information, if all i know about someone is that they're a model or if that's how i'm introduced to them, I'm out. She may be a great person and i may be passing up the opportunity of a lifetime, but I'm ok with that. Just like i'm not going to listen to an album from a band i hate on the off chance that there's one amazing song on it, i'm not going to spend my time on a chick who comes from a scene and lifestyle that i could give a shit about. My time is too valuable to me and I don't put anyone on a pedestal just because they are what people think of as "beautiful". I am completely 100% selfish, and if someone cannot make my life more enjoyable, i don't care how hot they are or how good they fuck. I've got better things to do with my time than bow down to someone who's totally hot.