Oh yeah so I had a company merger go down last week.
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haha, yeah, considering what happened when the ol lady found some porn in the history. id probably be dead.
lol @ adrian
lol @ adrian
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actually it is. but it was a dark day in dorian's life when he got a phone call at work from his wife that started something like this, "have you been looking at porn on the computer?"
Erik
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no, no it's not. at all. being unfaithful generally involves physically contact between your genitals and another person than the one you're supposed to be faithful to
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haha i dont see how it's not. just try jerking off to porn in front of your gf/wife/whatever. 99% percent of them will be like, "wtf!?". the 1% that likes it is also cheating on you every chance she gets.
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I've watched porn with a girlfriend before. The only thing I kept a check on was to make sure that she gave me the boner, and not some lesbian action going onscreen, because that could've pissed her off, haha.
Anyhow, while I'm not exactly recommending the "don't ask don't tell" theory I presented last night, if someone I truly loved cheated on me, I wouldn't ever want to know. Besides, when someone confesses to that all they are doing is making their own guilty conscience feel better by making the victim feel worse. Fuck that, I'm okay with ignorance for certain things.
Anyhow, while I'm not exactly recommending the "don't ask don't tell" theory I presented last night, if someone I truly loved cheated on me, I wouldn't ever want to know. Besides, when someone confesses to that all they are doing is making their own guilty conscience feel better by making the victim feel worse. Fuck that, I'm okay with ignorance for certain things.
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Last time I was was watching TV with my girlfriend and some lesbian porn came on, she asked me if I wanted to leave it on that channel 
Erik
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oh man that's just so fucking terrible. i mean sure if it works for you then right but AAAARGH just the god damn THOUGHT! argh!
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Exactly. The thought alone is terrible, and even more so if you know it to be fact. So why not live your life in complete ignorance of the fact that your wife got doubleteamed by 8' tall black dudes when you were on vacation without her last year?Erik said:
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my take on all this ...
if you are tempted away from your WIFE ... I would look into WHY ... and fast
I am not a cheater, as I would hate it if my SO was doing it to me ... but I recognize that the few times I have been tempted (and once followed through) was because the current relationship was in trouble to begin with.
if you are tempted away from your WIFE ... I would look into WHY ... and fast
I am not a cheater, as I would hate it if my SO was doing it to me ... but I recognize that the few times I have been tempted (and once followed through) was because the current relationship was in trouble to begin with.
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because shit like that almost always comes up to the surface somehow. even if it is 8 years later, imagine knowing that you spent X years of your life with her, with her knowing it, and you not. it's the kind of thing that drives a man to fucking murder.NADatar said:
Yeah, I'm completely leaving out the psychological aspect to my various comments, because there can be any number of reasons why someone would cheat to begin with.lurch70 said:
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i just like hot chicks. i was wondering if it's normal to fantasize about them when you already have one.
