I just get really pissed off about this. No harsh feelings.
What would I suggest? Been to a Dark Tranquillity gig? Mikael jumps down off the stage into the crowd and lets fans sing parts of the last song, shaking hands, and they hang out with them afterwards. Things like that. Or offering live recordings or special recordings for a modest price. Fans appreciate that stuff. It doesn't have to be perfectly polished. Posters should be free or less than $5. Fan club CDs $10, I wouldn't pay for a fan club membership but others might if it entailed some of the things people mentioned in this thread.
However, the things I brought up are absolute no-no's IMO: vip sections, meet&greets at gigs, signed stuff, anything gig related really.
I am looking for input to bring ideas to this project, and any suggestions will help. Thank you for your honesty and opinions.