Well, you seem to like Anathema, don't you?
And you would agree that "A Fine Day..." has nothing to do with "Silent Enigma", for example? Fine, 'cause that's called progression. Undoubtedly there are enough other ambitious bands that still play doom or whatever metal, some even mention Katatonia as an influence, so chill and then buy their stuff if that solely is what you want to listen to. Don't get me wrong, I usually like critical comments - as long as they are sort of constructive.
Sorry, but this bitching about "good old times" is getting boring. Take it or leave it.
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No need to send private messages, my post isn't so intimate.