say something about ... yourself!
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Viking Bastard
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love is the answer
Karmic
speedy meatmonger
If I get rejected again I'm going on another heavy drug binge.
can't you just drink lots of water instead
Dred
His Dudeness
IMO your first order of business should be trying to get yourself some goddamned poontang, not land yourself a relationship...so perhaps take that approach towards her?I think I might be able to land a girlfriend. She seems into me but she might be leading me on like the last one.
I'm gonna try to get her. If I get rejected again I'm going on another heavy drug binge.
Jace_Mereel
Freakame, Freakayou!
John, think carefully about this. I know a guy that if a girl was simply nicer than usual to him, he'd fall head over heels for her and assume that she really into him, when indeed she's just friendly. And when that girl would "reject" him he got depressed and in fact blamed the whole of the female race for being fickle.
Just keep that in mind. I know you're not all that fond of me, but several people do care about you and don't want to see you keep hurting yourself like this.
Just keep that in mind. I know you're not all that fond of me, but several people do care about you and don't want to see you keep hurting yourself like this.
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Viking Bastard
Oh Jace, I'm sorry I used to be mean to you. I was a stupid anti-Christian kvlt metalhead. Well, I'm still anti-christian but you know what I mean.
By the way, when I said get her, sex, relationship, don't care, anything. I had her at my house yesterday we were on my bed chilling smoking she brought her bong, listening to Sublime.
Our friends were there though so blah.
Dred
His Dudeness
as ^^ said, don't mistake being nice for actual interest. Shit's soulcrushing if you allow it to happen. Go into the situation without any expectations or intentions, if shit seems right, put your hand on her leg and feel it out (not up...out.) If she seems okay with it, make a move. Worse thing that could happen is she says no/stops you, in which case....fuck'er. There are always more women out there. Just don't play the timid nice guy...that game will only get you a pity fuck once in a great while.
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When in doubt, assume they're just bubbly and social people. If they grab your cack or lick your face, then you're probably getting somewhere.
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Well if she does that and doesn't mean it, she probably deserves a glass jaw. Don't lick my face unless we're about to have some form of sex!
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Viking Bastard
Is that you in your fucking avatar?
I will listen to you guys, it's not like I have any confidence so my expectations are low.
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Dred
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Neither do I, but I was once advised to feign it until it comes naturally. Women are attracted to confidence...that's why you always see the "bad guy" getting the girl while the "nice guy" gets walked all over. In reality it's about how much confidence the guy exudes.
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