Hey Karen, a good friend of mine I worked with in the AF is getting out and moving to D.C. She's getting a job with the DIA (Defense Intelligence Agency, but I'm sure you knew that) and is a VERY avid traveller of the world and is a very big wine buff. I know it's kind of a weird thing to ask, but I think you two would get along wonderfully and have many things in common. If you're interested I could put you in touch with her if she agrees as well. She's originally from San Francisco.
I think you two would get along very well. I know it's a weird thing to ask but it was just a thought.