Let's keep the numbers theme going
1) basically describes nirvana to me and grossly oversimplifies the other bands that entered the discussion (save for post-Ten pearl jam... that stuff sucked). There are some other bad albums in the later 90's too (Soundgarden's last album) but that was pretty much at the point that the genre was dying because ironically, all these bands were getting huge.
2) Nothing really to say here. Sure there are some great metal albums and I may have misspoke, but I'll ammend my statement to say pretty much every band that was around in the 80's and continued on into the 90's released some bullshit material that had a distinct 90's sound, regardless of if it was thrash, death, power, traditional, etc. Everything seemed to be influenced by Pantera or Nirvana. Which i'll address in a second...
3) I agree with you about wanting to see a band that's going to rock out. That's why Dream Theater is so fucking boring. And yes, I'd much rather listen to Alice In Chains, early Soundgarden, select Pearl Jam, Mother Love Bone, etc than the vast majority of Fates Warning and Sieges Even. I think the only worthwhile album by Fates Warning is No Exit. I never have the urge to hear anything else by them. Sure, if someone throws on Awaken the Guardian or Spectre Within, I'm totally on board. I'll never ever choose to listen to it though.
4) And finishing the thought in point 2, I have no ire for anything that destroyed popular music. Popular music was not dumbed down or mutilated by "grunge". the decline started long before that, and had it not, something else would have come along. I have much more venom for a band like Pantera who took something that I love and care deeply about (metal) and bastardized it, made it OK to have this groove breakdown shit, have some vocalist who sounds like he's taking a huge dump, and turn metal into bullshit jock music. They had such an influence on bands that they single-handedly turned the thrash genre into fucking garbage. don't believe me? Listen to Twisted into Form by Forbidden, then go listen to Green. Or really any american thrash from the 90's... Annihilator is another good example (I know, not American, canadian. Same thing).
Point is, I don't generally care about popular mainstream music of any genre, though there are bands, artists, and albums that catch my attention as I'm sure everyone here can agree with to a large extent. it's not offensive when Kanye gets up and interrupts Taylor Swift because they're both so unimportant to my life. but when Pantera, Korn, Slipknot, Mastadon, or any band of that ilk takes something that I find dear and just fucks it up under the guise of "progression", that's where i get mad.
Paradise Lost and The Odyssey (but mostly paradise lost) both have a large Dime influence on a lot of the riffs. This is why I don't feel like they are solid albums (though they obviously both have their masterpieces)
quick edit: hope none of this comes off as me being too much of a dick. Truth be told, i care about literally none of this, i just have a day off and am bored
Arguing is fun though