The "Do you want kids?" Thread

[Rabid Headbanger]

 

[Nayz]

I would love to have children when I'm older, although I wouldn't want to have to give up any music related jobs >.<

 

[Vimana]

But your our beloved thrash lobster and not just some hard rock kid who's going to be bald at 35 and abandon his dreams for an office job.

I like how you refer to me as "some Hard Rock kid". Hahaha, name one other band I listen to besides GN'R and Zeppelin. And if you really wanted to insult me, wouldn't you just say I would try at music and fail and end up a hobo?

Agreed. Rabid has some moments, but Zoid is almost never funny.

Zoids a better sport though. So far he hasn't completely attacked someones musical taste for being called unfunny.

I want two demon spawn. Either a boy and a girl, or two boys. Two girls would just be damned annoying, I think. They'll be the babehs of doom.

Two boys isn't that great either, they fight. Me and my brother used to a lot.

I think it mostly depends on their personality, and age difference. I think if you have two kids with a 5 year age difference you can have one babysit the other one when the older one is 10 and it won't be too much trouble for him/her. My oldest sister would have to babysit me, my brother and my sister, she would say she had 3 reasons for not having kids "Andrew, Joseph, and Cecilia."

I would love to have children when I'm older, although I wouldn't want to have to give up any music related jobs >.<

Theres day care, and then when they're 3 you can make them play instruments.

 

[mutantllama]

I dunno.

 

[zabu of nΩd]

My brother is five and a half years younger than I, and we rarely fought. My parents were always proud of that.

Also, I have an aunt and uncle who are super-fundamentalist Christians and don't give their kids the slightest amount of freedom, and their kids fight all the time, even despite huge age differences.

 

[Rabid Headbanger]

Also, I have an aunt and uncle who are super-fundamentalist Christians and don't give their kids the slightest amount of freedom, and their kids fight all the time, even despite huge age differences.

It's actually brutal dangerous to raise your kids that way.

 

[False Joe]

I have a brother 4 years older than me, and we always fight.

Now I'm 17, and he's 21/22/23/20 (I can't remember these things) it's just getting brilliantly violent.

 

[mutantllama]

I honestly can't remember a time me and my brother fought each other out of anger. We would wrestle and shit but that's it.

 

[Zephyrus]

I have an older sister, and we fought when we were little. Of course, she always secured victory the moment I fought back.

 

[biggsy]

yes

 

[cookiecutter]

I have a little sister and we never fight anymore. I realized that the only way to win was to let her do stupid things by herself, because if I fought her it was automatically my fault.

 

[ShredHeadJHJ]

I would have to be in crazy love to want to have a kid with someone. I've been fucked over by girls a lot in the past so it would take years for me to be able to trust a girl enough to willing mate with her. I do love kids & my ex had a great kid albeit a bit of a brat, but I'm not sure if I would ever want one of my own.

 

[Perdition's Light]

If I ever become a decent and respectable member of society, then yes.

Until that day, not a chance in hell.

 

[ShredHeadJHJ]

If I ever become a decent and respectable member of society, then yes.

Until that day, not a chance in hell.

I would just say that I want to become a better more stable man before I have a kid. I'm pretty respected by my peers for the most part & I pay my dues in a lot of ways, but I'm not financially stable enough to afford to take care of any children.

 

[Perdition's Light]

Well I recently came to the realization that I need to reevaluate my life and that most of my friends were junkies and/or losers. The few remaining "real" friends I have left respect me, but there are certainly a lot of things in my life I need to take care of that should already be taken care of by now if I hadn't fucked off so much. I'm sure one day I'll get there, and then it's just a matter of finding a meaningful long-term relationship with someone I can imagine spending the rest of my life with. It's happened before so I don't see why it couldn't happen again.

I'm definitely of the mindset (and I'm sure I'm not alone here) that too many social parasites and failures at life are bringing children into this world and dooming them to miserable existences. Few things make me more sick, to be honest. Therefore, my criteria for myself having children is of an extremely high level. If I ever have a child, we will not be the family eating dinner at the McDonald's in Walmart.

 

[Evil?]

Amen to that.

Some people should not be allowed to breed. The process for adoption is rigorous and strict as hell, but just about anyone can pop out as many of their own babies as they please.

 

[black blood]

Kids? Not for me. but if you do, remember...

:Smokedev:

 

[cookiecutter]

Amen to that.

Some people should not be allowed to breed. The process for adoption is rigorous and strict as hell, but just about anyone can pop out as many of their own babies as they please.

this reminds of something that happened as I was walking back to the subway last night. This person who looked like a ten year old boy came up to me. Turns out it was a poor pregnant woman asking for money

 

[Zephyrus]

Asian?

 

[cookiecutter]

Asian?

White

The old oversized-trenchcoat-disguising-two-pregnant-women-underneath trick? An oldie, but a goodie...I've been duped by it myself.

Fixed