I know, that's why I don't even know why you started to argue.
To make it even clearer, what I disliked was marginalé's referring to the sex with his new date as "fucking her". So I made that point, then Strangelight said why I should make a point, then I said why, then pondered about those girls who are referred to in some sexual context but can't fight back because they don't post here, then you entered the conversation.
So now it's absolutely clear why I should never say anything particular about my love life. But of course that's not a message for you again, it's just the kind of moral of the little "story".