then what about Love

Oh how easy it would be for me to get all bitter and cynical and rant how love doesn't exist and I ain't gonna trust no one ever again, but that ain't true. I guess it's only when you lose it you start to understand how much it ment to you... I feel like half a person now that she's gone. Too tired to do anything, really. I truly believe in love 'cause I've witnessed it, but it might not be easy to get there. Tho it's worth all the trouble. Oh fock. Great timing for this thread, Ivo :cry:
 
Originally posted by Don Corleone
Eramaajarvi - thats the point. exactly. i mean throughout history, everybody has been talking, fighting, writing, composing about it...SO IT COULDNT BE A LIE AFTER ALL. IT ISNT.

Funny. They use the same excuses trying to prove god exists ;)
 
Originally posted by Forlorn Hope
I've met my girlfriend in the most unbelievable way possible, the chance that something like this would happen was 1/100000 or something, but it happened! And I'm very happy about that... I can imagine how my life would look like without her :cry:
I don't care if it sounds cheesy or something, but she means EVERYTHING to me... And we're together for 1,5 years now, and still in love with eachother, never had a fight.
YES I believe in love

Sounded stupid? :cry:
that's what i was thinking one week ago until she left me without any reason, after a 3 years of seriuos relationsips, now there's only pain and bitterness...
one piece of advice never trust into women's oaths - they'll be the first to break them!!
 
Originally posted by Ivo
one piece of advice never trust into women's oaths - they'll be the first to break them!!

Well I think that works as much for blokes oaths, you just never know what kind of shit life throws in yer face. So I'd say trust no one or trust 'em all until they prove otherwise... I don't wanna live my life bitter to all women 'cause I've just been dumped, tho I feel like shit right now...
 
Originally posted by Crack Hitler
Well I think that works as much for blokes oaths, you just never know what kind of shit life throws in yer face. So I'd say trust no one or trust 'em all until they prove otherwise... I don't wanna live my life bitter to all women 'cause I've just been dumped, tho I feel like shit right now...
Hm, dunno, maybe you're right, but i had difficult period once (wanted to break off), but i didn't betrayed her, coz i knew how much it will harm her... i kept it inside and everything passed (it was all a bad influence from my job)...we were happy then - all the time...
regarding you thoughts i may quote Plutarch -
"Women don't know even the shadow of the true love"
 
I've had those difficult periods also, I think everyone does in the long run, but of course I didn't do anything stupid, 'cause I knew that in a long relationship those are un-avoidable things... And you either talk them through or keep 'em to yourself and wait for the better days (depends on problems, I suppose). But the fact is, I would've NEVER done this final decision 'cause she really had grown on me you know? But I guess (and somehow hope) that this ain't easy on her either...
 
Originally posted by Crack Hitler
I've had those difficult periods also, I think everyone does in the long run, but of course I didn't do anything stupid, 'cause I knew that in a long relationship those are un-avoidable things... And you either talk them through or keep 'em to yourself and wait for the better days (depends on problems, I suppose). But the fact is, I would've NEVER done this final decision 'cause she really had grown on me you know? But I guess (and somehow hope) that this ain't easy on her either...
yeah, in a longer relationships you somehow become addicted to your love - you start to feel her as your half - it's too bad that can't avoid that (or if we avoided it the whole relationship won't be the same) but i think they take it easily, so fucking damn easily - imo their only concern is "oh, the poor one, he'll accept it somehow"...
 
Nah. It just feels they might take it more easily (and now I talk about your girl and my girl..) 'cause they've been the ones doing the dumping so it means they must've gone through all this thinking and sad stuff beforehand, you know? Plus I can't tell how my girlfriend (uh.. ex-) sees me handling this, 'cause we haven't seen eachother in awhile now. It just might be that she's wondering how the hell I'm taking this so easily just because she hasn't seen me at my worst.
 
Originally posted by Crack Hitler
Nah. It just feels they might take it more easily (and now I talk about your girl and my girl..) 'cause they've been the ones doing the dumping so it means they must've gone through all this thinking and sad stuff beforehand, you know? Plus I can't tell how my girlfriend (uh.. ex-) sees me handling this, 'cause we haven't seen eachother in awhile now. It just might be that she's wondering how the hell I'm taking this so easily just because she hasn't seen me at my worst.
let' suppose (as you say) that she is regreting this - why she would dump you after all?
 
I didn't say she might regret, but just that I think it ain't easy for her either, doing this. She dumped me for various little reasons and you know sometimes people just have to breakup, I think :cry: But it doesn't mean that it's only hard for one and oh so easy for the other.

But this is just my speculation about the things happenin now. I really don't wanna know if she's enjoying her new life full on even tho it's been only a couple of weeks now... That would kill me.
 
Originally posted by sol83
Suddenly I feel happy I'm single.....
yeah, you should be...
you don't know how fucking painfully can be (the separation), maybe some listening to "One Last Goodbye" will help you get the idea :)
 
@crack
why i think that at this moment we're very pathetic? Damn it, life goes on... and i should do something about it, maybe tonight :)
 
Originally posted by Eos
Well that´s nice..
Some men don´t have to wonder if they don´t understand the women :p
i quoted Plutarch if you have noticed...:rolleyes:
 
Originally posted by Ivo
yeah, you should be...
you don't know how fucking painfully can be (the separation), maybe some listening to "One Last Goodbye" will help you get the idea :)

Oh nonononono! I almost killed myself (figuratively) by listening to that song :cry:

@crack
why i think that at this moment we're very pathetic? Damn it, life goes on... and i should do something about it, maybe tonight


Well we are pathetic but we should cherish that feeling while it lasts :rolleyes: No need to rush, just give it some time. All I'm going to do tonight is smoke way too much and feel, yes, pathetic. To quote one of my favourite breaking up -bands, Everything But the Girl (don't throw stones at me! :) )

"I still haven't got over it even now.
I want to spend huge amounts of time in my room.
And I'm not coming out until I feel ready,
not running out for a while my heart's unsteady,
and I'm not really in your head.
I'm not really in your head."

[edit] Ok, this works so much better with the music...