Bryant said:
Zeimot, I am lucky that if I were to go to the church I grew up in, almost everyone there would want the chance to "save me" as I have long hair, and cigarrette (and sometimes beer) breath, but very few would look down on me. I have never been to Sweden, but in America, many people use Church as a social gathering. In a big "popular" Baptist church, I wouldn't fit in. The church I was raised in is not like that. They speak in tongues (I really would have a hard time explaining that) and play music, including electric guitar (though clean) in their service. They are both more conservative (the fact that only in the last 20 years women were allowed to wear pants) but also more liberal as everyone expresses their "belief" in different ways. People are VERY friendly and want to talk to you and get to know you even if you are a stranger.
I grew up in a church in which they spoke in tongues, so I know what the babbling sounds like, they practiced prophetical sayings as well.
Bryant said:
As I said, I picked up on some of my Christian teachings later in life, but more importantly, I picked up on a few of the Holiness beliefs (that I chose to pick up on) and one of those teachings is that we are all special people. Every one of us is important and we all have something to say. I am a cross between that and a "hippie." I love people. I love to meet people and I don't mind telling people about me because I love myself to a very high degree.
I love people too Bryant, no matter if they are Wiccas, Christians, Mormons, Muslims, Buddists.. or something else... Religion is not an issue when it comes to whom I might/mightn't like/love. But I do not like the idea of how religion. Some say that it's not the religion that is wrong but the people who use it for their own purposes. Well, I can understand the idea, but whole idea of the bigger religions is that everyone is supposed to believe in a specific predefined way. I don't like that. Therefore, I cannot be part of any religion, since I cannot believe in what someone else has written that I should believe. The problem is - out of my point of view - that people who start to practice some religion are not thinking there own thoughts anymore, they get so influenced by the teachings, and they are afraid that someone will tell them that their thoughts are wrong, so they keep their real thoughts inside until their real thoughts are forgotten. Well, I have experienced it.
Bryant said:
As I stated before, I am not a Christian and don't pretend to be, but the religion (like other religions) have positive points about it. I try to pick and choose the good things about it and practice it, but as opposed to being "Christian" I practice "the golden rule" more than anything else.
There is nothing wrong with "the golden rule", apart that those christians that I've met don't really practice it at all. It's just something nice to say.
But outside the walls of christianity I've met more people that practice this.
I guess that religious people are sometimes so religious that they do not have time to be in the real world. And that is not only among chrisitians, no, I've met mormons, muslims, wiccans that do the same mistake. They are so busy with how to interpret their religion that they forget to practice the parts that they so much wish to convince me is essence of their religion.
Funny, but 'the golden rule' is more or less what is proclaimed to be the essence in many (not all) religions. I've seen that being practiced by only 3 indivuduals so far compared to the many more that I've met outside religious institutions that practice the golden rule in everyday life.
Bryant said:
Having said that...... If I can possibly be nice enough to everyone to convince them to do what I say...... my work is done. Think about it.
Bryant
I like the idea of keeping the good stuff and throw away the bad stuff. That is what I try to live by, even though one might not think so.
I bet it sound like that I feel hate towards religion and religious people, which is not the case at all. I probably use too many superlative so that I get misunderstood. This is only my lack of proper English words for some of the things I wish to express.