What are your biggest downfalls?

tara

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I'm speaking along the lines of emotional and mental.
Mine are:

  • I live to see others happy before I am truly happy myself
  • I worry way too much about things
  • I get upset too easily
  • I give my heart to too many people, only to have it torn apart in some way, shape or form.
 
duckattack said:
You are me.

Weird. Do you happen to be a Taurus?
I figured out most of my traits come from my astrological sign. I'm like a lost puppy dog most of the time, hehe.
 
tara said:
Weird. Do you happen to be a Taurus?
I figured out most of my traits come from my astrological sign. I'm like a lost puppy dog most of the time, hehe.
Nope, Cancer. I bet we react differently to the same situations - I get moody and withdrawn, and pretty much suffer in silence. I guess that would be another of my downfalls, although it's a Cancerian trademark pretty much.
 
duckattack said:
Nope, Cancer. I bet we react differently to the same situations - I get moody and withdrawn, and pretty much suffer in silence. I guess that would be another of my downfalls, although it's a Cancerian trademark pretty much.


Yeah... I am pretty different. I am quite vocal when something bothers me and not afraid to show my emotions.
You and I would not be compatible :(.
 
I'm cold and indifferent towards friends and family during their "times of need". No matter how much I've tried to change, I always end back at square one.

I'm a Taurus as well, but react as duck does...
 
I need too much time to make a decision.
I think too much about how others may look at me.
Sometimes I make ironic remarks that get misinterpreted and I'd come across as rude.

I really fear going to the dentist.
I eat pizza way to often.
 
tara said:
Yeah... I am pretty different. I am quite vocal when something bothers me and not afraid to show my emotions.
You and I would not be compatible :(.
Actually, (and I swear, I'm not hitting on you :D ), you'd be surprised. I tend to do better in relationships with people who are outspoken and vocal. It draws me out of myself a bit. That was the problem in the relationship I'm trying to get over right now - we both let things slide for too long, hoping the other one would take the bull by the horns, which she finally did by breaking up with me... :err: :erk:
 
I tend to kick ass too much, and others get jealous.





But seriously, I tend to be pig-headed and have a bad temper, which is usually inflicted upon myself. My self esteem fluctuates as well, it really depends on how well I think I'm doing at something. Right now, it's in the middle. I tend to be a big goofball, unless when I'm around a girl that I'm attracted to that I don't know very well..maybe I just need to loosen up a bit.
 
mmmh... the first one i can think of is that i always feel the need to have everything under control, if not, i get nervous. to prevent such a scenario, i usually plan most of the things in every little detail. i can't just go and see what will happen.
i'm different when it comes to relationships, though. in that case, i'm usually optimistic and think everything can work out.
 
-I often just cant get things done, even though I know what would be the right thing to do, and know it wouldnt be too hard, I just dont do it...
-My life doesnt seem to like me, and I keep wondering why, Im such a nice guy after all!
-I just dont know what the hell I want, some times I take pride in the pain, other times I wish I could just live another happy life.. so I fall from one to the other and never know where the hell I am