too many things to say and i'm sure i will forget something
@svart: i understand what you say and i'm sure all this suffering will make me a better person and a stronger person....i'm not married, and i don't think i will, my boyfriend and i both come from divided families and we both think that if we love each other there's no need to marry....it's nice to choose to live together every day because is your choice and not because you're married and in a certain way obliged, cause you promised eternal faithfullness...he is 11 years older than me and he is now the next thing i have to a paternal figure in my life....he helped me (and still helps) a lot during all this years and was always present.
i think that the thing that hurts the most by now is that i've not forgiven my father for what he had done, i've always thought that someday i would have done it, when i would have been older, maybe with children, and some things he has done or said wouldn't have hurted to much as today....but this will not happen anymore...i was not given this chance....and it's sad....it will happen only in my heart and not really...
@naglfar: my dad cheated on my mother for so many years, i discovered that and he still refused to say the truth even when it was manifest....then he started to behave like an idiot, he started to not care anymore the family, economically and emotionally, he went away leaving us into the shit, and he never turned his back....
i don't criticise him for having a new woman (or i should say women), it's possibile that two persons don't love each other anymore, or that a man falls in love with another woman, it's perfectly human.....but i criticise the way.... you cannot treat your family in that way, you cannot be a perfect father till the day before and then turn into a total bastard.....i mean, did he really loved me, did he really care, or was he pretending? how could it happen a such changing????
after some year he started to have problems, financial and healthy, even if he treated us as shit we tried to help him, and he???' first he asked help, then he refuse it, i still rembember and i'm sure i will never forget a sunday morning (or i should say saturday night, it was 5 am i had gone bed 2 hours before) when he called me from the hospital, he had a black eye, he didn't want to tell me how he hurted himself, he was in front of the hospital and he didn't want to enter, i had to bring him inside with force, and after that he told me litterally "fuck you, i don't care about you"...
this was the last time i tried to have a relationship with him....after that i've seen him for a year or more, never spoke on the telephone and no lust to do it....you see, it's not right to try to help a person and be kicked in the ass by that person as thanks....so...
@defiance: the right way to say it is: spero che andrà tutto bene
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but you were on the right way, very good
@gaunerin: i've noticed a funny thing. my two favourite artists are vintersorg and king diamond. speaking with people in real life and on the net i discovered that these two artists are united by this thing: their fans are totally crazy and really love their works to madness...but i try to explain better...
if you ask for example to a metalhead if he loves king diamond he will give you two kind of answers:
1- i really hate him, i can't stand his voice...bla bla bla
2- i love him, he's my god, he's the best singer/writer/artist of the word...
so opinions vary from total worshipness to extreme hate....there's not a middle range of listeners who appreciate him but in a moderate way, only the two extremes...
and this thing happens also with vintersorg fans, from one side the worshippers, we, and from the other side the one that don't care....
it's weird
now....who has done the book????
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sorry for errors, i've written the book from work, between a thing and another!